No, see, everything I've said is that there does not have to be someone who is in charge and someone who is not. At least, not in a BeDeeSeM sense. Because there are "power dynamics" in literally every relationship you have with anyone you meet ever. Does that make it all BeDeeSeM? Nope. Being a do...

That's your outlook. And it's a narrow one. I don't believe you or anyone else here can say what "the whole point" of cgl is, or that it "can't exist" without this or that. It's an idea entertained by many different people, it will always come in different forms and it will always change. It's not ...

I can't say I agree, pastel. There doesn't need to be a dom or sub at all in cgl :) You say a caregiver can be a dom OR a sub, so why can't they just be... oh, you know, neither? I'm not submissive nor dominant and I'm still interested in cgl and clearly I'm not the only one, so what would you have...

So, BeDeeSeM is BeDeeSeM regardless of the context. There IS a power dynamic involved in CGl. There is the Caregiver, who is (often) a Dominant (though Sub CGs exist as well as Dom Littles). Just because there isn't any rope play, blood play, or more "dark" play themes going on does not change the f...

:/ Anyone have any advice for LBs? All I can find is sissy stuff. v_v and that makes my dysphoria very unpleasant.

We're super big though !! >:) Besides, what would Bigs do without us? O: They need our cuddles an' stuff.

Still looking. :)

^0^ that's not a kitty silly !! that's Liir. He's a Dragon. Or, better known as the Toothless Dragon from Build a Bear. :3

They make good pillows an' stuff. :D My favoritest one is probably Little Lex at the tippy top n0n

These are all my stuffies I have out of the bag. :3 In order, from top to bottom: Tippy top: Little Lex the teddy bear Below tippy top: Stitch the Tsum Tsum, Squirtle, Cheshire Cat Tsum Tsum Middle: Arthur the Polar Bear, Chill the Husky, Lola the Reindeer Baby, Spearmint the Agender Baby Dragon, Lu...