[Beachdaddy58]

• Name: Mike
• Age: 58 I know I'm probably the oldest Caregiver sseking a relationship. Found out about this dynamic later in life and was a Caregivet to a wonderful middle for 8 years.
• Height: 5 ft 9 in
• Weight: 200lbs
• Location: East Coast resort town in Mid -Atlantic
• Occupation: Delivery driver for magazines and pizza
• Current Marital or Relationship Status: Single
• physically intimate orientation: Heterosexual

• What type of partner are you looking for here?
  Not sure yet, but long term if possible
• Are you open to long distance relationships or only local?
  Prefer local but we'll see
• Describe your perfect match and some great qualities that they would have: I would like a partner who is loving, respectful, playful. She can be socially outgoing or an introvert; doesn't matter. I just want her to be herself. Someone who is intimate; likes touching, cuddling, etc. Touching is important. We all need that
• Are you into physically intimate or nonsexual Caregiver/little play?
  Both. Yes, sensual is very important. So are the non- sensual elements of a relationship. They fo hand in hand. A great relationship makes for great sensuality.
• Do you prefer polyamorous or monogamous relationships? Mono
• How long have you been into the BeDeeSeM scene?
• How long have you been into the Caregiver/little dynamic? 8 years
• What are you looking for in a little?
  Same as mentioned above
• What do you think you have to offer to a little?
  I know I am older than the average daddy, so it will take someone who likes much older men. My middle was half my age, so I do have experience in a large age gap. My purpose is to provide an atmosphere where my middle/little can be herself. An atmosphere of love and protection. Of nuturing and allowing her to grow as a person.
• How do/would you provide aftercare?
• If into physically intimate scenes, what are some kinks you enjoy? I do enjoy age play, light hair pulling, name calling, light restraints. Oh, and I do like it when she has a potty mouth during this time.
• If into physically intimate scenes, what are some kinks you do not enjoy? No play that leaves marks, bruises, things like that. Nothing gross like poop play, blood, etc.
• What are your hard limits when it comes to play? That mentioned above
• What are some common punishments you use to discipline, correct, guide, or seduce?
  I will use spanking, if necessary. Time outs, possibly special burst denial. Hey, whatever works. I do like a girl to be bratty sometimes. And I can't resist the pouty look.
• What are rewards or reward methods you enjoy providing?
  Lots of hugs, sweets, a little field trip, a new stuffie
• Describe one of your favorite physically intimate or nonsexual fantasies:
  I love music, films, art. I live at the beach so my little will get pleny of surf and sand if she likes that
• What are some general (naughty or nice) nicknames you like to call your little?
  Baby, Hot Mess, Little Muffin
• If into physically intimate scenes, if a safe word is used during a scene then how do you proceed?
  Stop immediately and lovingly discuss no-no's and how to proceed
• What is one thing that all (Daddy, Mommy, or Caregiver) Doms should know?
  That my Little/Middle is my utmost responsibility to provide a loving environment where she will be protected and allowed to be herself
• What do you think makes a Caregiver Dom different than a regular or general Dominant?
  A Caregiver is stern but more gentle
• If into physically intimate scenes, what are 5 physically intimate things you enjoy?
  If you like to be called names, I love it; if not I refrain. Age play. I love high heels on a little or cutsie socks. Light restraints. Lots of foreplay
• What are 5 nonsexual things you enjoy?
  The beach, music, movies, art.
• What are 3 movies you enjoy?
  Dogfight ( 1991) a comedic love story, Rumblefish, Night of the Living Dead. Did I mention I'm a zombie geek?
• What are 3 of your favorite foods?
  Pizza, pastas, veggies
• What do you think of a little who requires a large portion of your attention during your free time? I would enjoy that. After a day of work, I will want to come home and spend my time with someone I love and who loves me
• During an argument or disagreement with a partner, how do you typically react?
  Communication is key. Listen to what she has to say. Let her vent if necessary, but in a respectful way. Never allow things to escalate by shouting back. And never, ever go to bed angry. I'm not into the silent treatment thing. At the end of the day though, she needs to understand that what I am doing is best for her. That should be communicated in day to day living
• What are some other things you would like to tell a potentially interested partner about yourself?

Again, I know I'm older than most, if not everybody. But I think the one who shows an interest in me will be pleasantly pleased. I'm not looking for a particular age, just that one middle/little who would be a great fit.
Thank you for reading!

[Beachdaddy58]

[quote=Nice Daddy looking for his Little]

• Name: Mike
• Age: 58 I know I'm probably the oldest Caregiver sseking a relationship. Found out about this dynamic later in life and was a Caregivet to a wonderful middle for 8 years.
• Height: 5 ft 9 in
• Weight: 200lbs
• Location: East Coast resort town in Mid -Atlantic
• Occupation: Delivery driver for magazines and pizza
• Current Marital or Relationship Status: Single
• sensual orientation: Heterosexual

• What type of partner are you looking for here?
  Not sure yet, but long term if possible
• Are you open to long distance relationships or only local?
  Prefer local but we'll see
• Describe your perfect match and some great qualities that they would have: I would like a partner who is loving, respectful, playful. She can be socially outgoing or an introvert; doesn't matter. I just want her to be herself. Someone who is intimate; likes touching, cuddling, etc. Touching is important. We all need that
• Are you into sensual or nonsexual Caregiver/little play?
  Both. Yes, sensual is very important. So are the non- sensual elements of a relationship. They fo hand in hand. A great relationship makes for great sensuality.
• Do you prefer polyamorous or monogamous relationships? Mono
• How long have you been into the BeDeeSeM scene?
• How long have you been into the Caregiver/little dynamic? 8 years
• What are you looking for in a little?
  Same as mentioned above
• What do you think you have to offer to a little?
  I know I am older than the average daddy, so it will take someone who likes much older men. My middle was half my age, so I do have experience in a large age gap. My purpose is to provide an atmosphere where my middle/little can be herself. An atmosphere of love and protection. Of nuturing and allowing her to grow as a person.
• How do/would you provide aftercare?
• If into sensual scenes, what are some kinks you enjoy? I do enjoy age play, light hair pulling, name calling, light restraints. Oh, and I do like it when she has a potty mouth during this time.
• If into sensual scenes, what are some kinks you do not enjoy? No play that leaves marks, bruises, things like that. Nothing gross like poop play, blood, etc.
• What are your hard limits when it comes to play? That mentioned above
• What are some common punishments you use to discipline, correct, guide, or seduce?
  I will use spanking, if necessary. Time outs, possibly special burst denial. Hey, whatever works. I do like a girl to be bratty sometimes. And I can't resist the pouty look.
• What are rewards or reward methods you enjoy providing?
  Lots of hugs, sweets, a little field trip, a new stuffie
• Describe one of your favorite sensual or nonsexual fantasies:
  I love music, films, art. I live at the beach so my little will get pleny of surf and sand if she likes that
• What are some general (naughty or nice) nicknames you like to call your little?
  Baby, Hot Mess, Little Muffin
• If into sensual scenes, if a safe word is used during a scene then how do you proceed?
  Stop immediately and lovingly discuss no-no's and how to proceed
• What is one thing that all (Daddy, Mommy, or Caregiver) Doms should know?
  That my Little/Middle is my utmost responsibility to provide a loving environment where she will be protected and allowed to be herself
• What do you think makes a Caregiver Dom different than a regular or general Dominant?
  A Caregiver is stern but more gentle
• If into sensual scenes, what are 5 sensual things you enjoy?
  If you like to be called names, I love it; if not I refrain. Age play. I love high heels on a little or cutsie socks. Light restraints. Lots of foreplay
• What are 5 nonsexual things you enjoy?
  The beach, music, movies, art.
• What are 3 movies you enjoy?
  Dogfight ( 1991) a comedic love story, Rumblefish, Night of the Living Dead. Did I mention I'm a zombie geek?
• What are 3 of your favorite foods?
  Pizza, pastas, veggies
• What do you think of a little who requires a large portion of your attention during your free time? I would enjoy that. After a day of work, I will want to come home and spend my time with someone I love and who loves me
• During an argument or disagreement with a partner, how do you typically react?
  Communication is key. Listen to what she has to say. Let her vent if necessary, but in a respectful way. Never allow things to escalate by shouting back. And never, ever go to bed angry. I'm not into the silent treatment thing. At the end of the day though, she needs to understand that what I am doing is best for her. That should be communicated in day to day living
• What are some other things you would like to tell a potentially interested partner about yourself?

Again, I know I'm older than most, if not everybody. But I think the one who shows an interest in me will be pleasantly pleased. I'm not looking for a particular age, just that one middle/little who would be a great fit.
Thank you for reading![/quote]

[LeoButterfly]

I don't think that you should see your age as an issue, after all age is only a number and most times the right Little can help you to feel like a kid again (Giggle)