By littleprincessliz94 -
- 8 years ago
#5514
I think this could be a good thing to post that can be linked back to from time to time when needed. It has occurred to me that while most of us here are aware of kink, a lot of us are also just starting out not only as Littles and Care Givers and such, but also just starting out when it comes to sex and sometimes even sensual selfplay. I'm going to take the time to link a couple of videos that i think are relevant to this. but I am also going to write a little bit out so that you can get the gist of what i'm meaning.
the things i'm about to say go for kitty cave or booty hole sex for the most part and are things i think people need to be aware of.
first-the first time either way shouldn't involve blood, tearing, or severe pain. booty hole specifically should be a gradual process in which you work your way up from fingers using different kinds of toys along the way.
second- GO SLOW. this is not a race! this is for your pleasure and you should be gentle with your body. sometimes things don't go right. if you find it difficult take a breather and see if more lube helps. which reminds me
third!- LUBE IS YOUR FRIEND (especially for booty hole) if you have never used a toy in either orifice i highly suggest lots of lube and arousal in addition to relaxation. it makes it easier for larger toys to slip inside the smaller holes you're aiming for.
fourth- if you feel uncomfortable STOP! DO NOT PASS GO. DO NOT COLLECT TWO HUNDRED DOLLARS. don't force yourself into doing anything that feels off. if something isn't going in easily DON'T force it! if you're a kitty cave-owning-human and you're having trouble with getting a toy to go in just take slow deep breaths and let the muscles in your pelvis relax, and remember that the toy you are using is there for you to /feel good/ it can't hurt you unless you make it!
now for videos
sensual selfplay-
https://youtu.be/Xf2vfTRy_Ow
for the kitty cave owners in the audience-
kitty cave health care basics
https://youtu.be/K6oKSz-IBSs
the hymen
https://youtu.be/9qFojO8WkpA
BONUS FEATURES!-
BeDeeSeM 101!
https://youtu.be/lqNEAMLjC2Q
hope you enjoy! ^-^
the things i'm about to say go for kitty cave or booty hole sex for the most part and are things i think people need to be aware of.
first-the first time either way shouldn't involve blood, tearing, or severe pain. booty hole specifically should be a gradual process in which you work your way up from fingers using different kinds of toys along the way.
second- GO SLOW. this is not a race! this is for your pleasure and you should be gentle with your body. sometimes things don't go right. if you find it difficult take a breather and see if more lube helps. which reminds me
third!- LUBE IS YOUR FRIEND (especially for booty hole) if you have never used a toy in either orifice i highly suggest lots of lube and arousal in addition to relaxation. it makes it easier for larger toys to slip inside the smaller holes you're aiming for.
fourth- if you feel uncomfortable STOP! DO NOT PASS GO. DO NOT COLLECT TWO HUNDRED DOLLARS. don't force yourself into doing anything that feels off. if something isn't going in easily DON'T force it! if you're a kitty cave-owning-human and you're having trouble with getting a toy to go in just take slow deep breaths and let the muscles in your pelvis relax, and remember that the toy you are using is there for you to /feel good/ it can't hurt you unless you make it!
now for videos
sensual selfplay-
https://youtu.be/Xf2vfTRy_Ow
for the kitty cave owners in the audience-
kitty cave health care basics
https://youtu.be/K6oKSz-IBSs
the hymen
https://youtu.be/9qFojO8WkpA
BONUS FEATURES!-
BeDeeSeM 101!
https://youtu.be/lqNEAMLjC2Q
hope you enjoy! ^-^
I also HIGHLY reccomend sexplainations youtube channel. So fun and informative and educational and enthusiastic, sex ed that probably wouldn't even take a little out of little space
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