[Lilcoco]

How? How do I do it? I'm so happy to be with them and I'm so grateful I feel like if I ask for anything to be different I'll ruin everything

[PrincessArielM]

Know that any CG worth their salt will want to know what makes you comfortable and happy And if I'm too nervous I'll write a letter (or text, message, etc.) outlining my feelings.


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[daddyandme]

I do the same thing... When i feel like i cant speak it aloud (because sometimes when im little im mute and i just write in notepad how im feeling

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[AndyW]

Your caregiver will want to know your needs. Don't keep him in the dark. Let him know so that he can attend to you. That will make him feel closer to you emotionally and because caregiving probably makes him sexually aroused as well he will want to be inside you more as well. So you can open your body up to him, and it is a beautiful circle.

[MommaWren]

If you have a hard time talking out loud about it, I do recommend writing down your feelings in a text or note to your caregiver. As a Mommy, I can say that the hardest part is trying to guess what makes my little feel little. Yes, I am the dominant one in my relationship, but it is still a 2-way road. I want to please him so he will in turn please me. It is very important to me that I am doing things to keep him happy because I am his caregiver, not his slave driver. I want him to be confident and happy as any good caregiver would want for their little. If you're afraid of starting the conversation, you could start with some thing like "[Caregiver] I have something really important to talk to you about, ok?" or "I wrote this list of Yes and No's and maybe we can talk about it?" and go from there.

[sarge67]

Everyone has provided great ideas to help you. I also agree that if the caregiver cares for you as much as you care for them it shouldn't be a problem to discuss. It sounds like an important topic and if it deals with real life, health, safety, and grown up stuff then you need to talk to them as grown ups. Grown up conversations are the BIG deals (also includes topics that a little wouldn't be able to translate into a clear/accurate manner). If the topic is important only as a little (a trip to Disney, a new teddy) than that can be communicated in a lot of ways as a little.

[Sweetling88]

I agree with everyone. Your happiness is your cg biggest concern. If something bothers you they're gonna wanna hear it. Via text or letter or words. You won't regret it.