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What are some acceptable ways to discipline my adult little girl when she's been a bad girl? She likes to be spanked so that isn't a good form of punishment when I do need to offer real discipline. I've been a Dom for the past couple of years but this is the first time as a Daddy Dom. I don't know how rough is too rough to be Daddy and what is typical. We are casual and I don't want to discuss ideas with her without having a few of my own first. Suggestions?

There are a lot of ways to discipline a little when they've been particularly naughty. I think it's important to talk with them first about it and what they also deem as appropriate forms of punishment. A few things I've seen that Daddies have done to punish their little girls, in particular, have been:

• Lines - Making your little write so many lines about their behavior. (example: Having her write "I will not yell at Daddy when I'm frustrated." 100 times by hand.)
• Enforcing corner time. (example: making your little sit or stand in the corner for a set amount of time.)
• Having your little kneel on rice by your feet for a set amount of time. (Perhaps an hour, during which your little should be as quiet as possible while you are busy with a "boring" task and she must remain focused on you.)
• special burst denial. (examples: not allowing your little to master-debate for a day and/or no "special playtime" with Daddy that day.)
• Extra chores.
• Earlier bedtime for a week.
• No sweets/dessert/special treats for a week.
• Homework-type assignments.

It is most important that you do not cut off communication with your little though. Do not break her trust and security in you by not talking about the situation or just generally to her. Littles can be extremely sensitive and ignoring them will not encourage better behavior.

I think it depends on what the Little likes and doesn't like. For example, I LOVE spankings, so Daddy can't use that as punishment. hehe

Well, my old "daddy" did spank me. Light spankings are fun for me but when he took off his belt or used a cane, he scared me! I shaped up right then and didn't want to cross him! My heart pounded and I was very scared. Then when daddy said to behave, I did as told.

My old daddy would use a belt or cane to spank me and I would always listen after that or *blush* special burst denial It was really mean and he only did it if I really made him mad

Another idea: Daddy won't come over to see you/play with you tonight because you broke __ rule. Just be sure if you do something like this that your little doesn't feel that you're abandoning her. The WORST punishment for me is not being allowed to see or talk to my Daddy, whether purposefully or otherwise. This one is tricky, I think.. We don't use it, but I've known others who do.

Other ideas: no dessert tonight, none of her special favorite treat (candy, favorite show, etc) for a certain amount of time (hours, days), "grounding" (have to ask daddy and get permission before making plans or going places). And I agree with the littles above: punishment spankings can be VERY different from fun spankings. Even with your hand, if you don't "warm up" the skin and you immediately spank very hard, it's obviously quite a different feel from fun spankings. UNLESS your little is a person who enjoys something that appears to be painful, tedious, or humiliating!