- 8 years ago
#6581
I am new to this website, but have been living a DDlg lifestyle for over a decade. So what I'm about to say I am not claiming as "Law" or "The Norm", but it's what I've taken from real world experience.
So, that being said, DDlg is less "rules and punishments", and more "Wisdom and guidance." I feel like punishments are better suited for BeDeeSeM. But, if you still want to include that dynamic in your DDlg relationship, as his Loving Little, you need to play an active role in deciding what is acceptable and unacceptable punishments, what rules feel too restrictive, and if you want to keep it all in the bedroom, or also live the lifestyle in public. I've been with girls that don't want to mention it at all in public, and had Littles that will yell out "Daddyyyy, Where are you" in the middle of Wal Mart.
Remember, the only reason he has power over you is because you trust him enough to give him that privileged. So, hash out the ground rules, Hand daddy the paddle, and you should be fine.