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Little/middle but with dominant traits?

Posted: |March 14th, 2016|, 3:59 pm
by music_obsessed
I'm pretty sure I'm a little or middle, but I have a few dominate traits and I wondered if I was in the right place. I'm curious and would love the help to find who I am.

Re: Little/middle but with dominant traits?

Posted: |March 14th, 2016|, 4:39 pm
by KillerCutie
'Course you're in the right place! :) Littles don't have to be submissive or anything at all, anyone who says that is far too close minded. Dominant littles exist and so do submissive caregivers. :) Heck, there can even be littles with no interest in a caregiver dynamic, being "little" or "middle" - it's a personal thing, it's just about you and what you feel like. The stance you take with other people doesn't have to come into it at all. It's a shame that probably many people think all there is to littles is being someone else's submissive in a adult interest. There's so much more! I never understand why people want to compartmentalize humans so much. Sorry, hope you don't think I'm rambling off at you!
Glad to have ya here and hope you find yourself here just like I have ^U^

Re: Little/middle but with dominant traits?

Posted: |March 14th, 2016|, 4:49 pm
by purplebunny
Hey, I'd like to think you've found the right place! :D

I think there is no problem with identifying as a little or middle with dominant traits, I've heard of domme littles, as well as I've people identify as a switch. I think it's nice to explore though, possibly before choosing titles.

Re: Little/middle but with dominant traits?

Posted: |March 15th, 2016|, 2:31 pm
by music_obsessed
:) thank you both that makes me feel so much better