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Does me starting in dd/lg mean or make me a pedophile

True Daddy Dom/little girl dynamics are in no way related to child involvement.

child involvement is the attraction to children. This includes everything in regards to the person being a child--physically and mentally. Not just a "childlike" personality or behaviors but everything involved with a person being a child (physical and mental).

DDLG involves a "little girl" but that person is biologically over the age of 18. She is likely physically and mentally matured but has a childlike wonder about her or just simply enjoys childlike activities. It doesn't actually make her a child. She is physically and mentally still an adult woman even if she pretends she isn't sometimes.

If you're looking for someone UNDER 18 then, sure, maybe you are looking into child involvement since under 18 is typically considered a child in most countries.

If you're fantasizing about having physically intimate contact with a child then, yes, you very well may be a pedophile.

If you're looking for an adult woman who likes acting silly and, at times, downright childish then you're still looking for an ADULT.

If you're fantasizing about a woman (with developed breasts, hips, thighs, height, weight, or other features that you would attribute to being an adult female) playfully acting childlike then that isn't a form of child involvement.

as i thought, a copout response



(and just for the people that are reading this, i want a adult, NOT a child)

Star's response is accurate, was well thought out, and was NOT a copout.

Let me make something abundantly clear here, if YOU are unsure whether being into DD/LG makes you a pedophile, you have no business being in this community. You are either interested in adults, or children. One is pretend, the other is unacceptable, immoral, and illegal.

If you are that incapable of telling fantasy from reality, i STRONGLY urge you to seek psychological help right away.

This might be a good place to start. https://mhaustralia.org/need-help

ant4321 wrote:as i thought, a copout response



(and just for the people that are reading this, i want a adult, NOT a child)

Sorry, are you calling her a child for being a little? Because she's an Adult, just like any other person on this site... I'm not exactly sure what type of answer youre looking for here.

Wow! Star's response is one of the clearest, most succinct explanations I have ever read of why our particular kink is NOT a form of paedophilia.

Kudos.

And I don't get the OP's response at all ... it was not a "cop out" response at all, but a perfect, to-the-point, explanatory answer. It is just one which I wish more of the vanilla community would "get".