- 8 years ago
#8194
Hello,
I've been reading about the DDLG dynamic because, my boyfriend mentioned something about his ex wife categorizing him as a daddydom and it started my curiosity. After reading the forums and some articles about it, I'm struggling to decide if I really am a little or just like some things that seem very similar.
I like the controlling and dominant part from him and I love how protective and caring he is with me. My only real problem right now is that, his ex wife (who uses to be his little until she ran off with another man, more than once) just started staying with us because she got evicted and has some health issues or whatever her excuse might be. The thing is that we had talked about having some extra fun sometime with another girl in our bed and now he has asked me if I really want to try the Ddlg lifestyle and if I will be willing to let his ex wife be part of our bed (supposedly strictly sex, no spending time with her, or having any other type of relation but sex).
I'm in love with him and I want to do whatever it takes to make him happy and proud of me but, for some reason I'm having a hard time just thinking about the fact if his ex wife being around our sex life.
Am I being unreasonable or paranoid? Is this something I have to be willing to deal with if I want to be a little? Are all daddys going to ask for things like that?
I feel so happy with him and I don't wanna loose him but, I don't think if I can "share" him with her.
I've been reading about the DDLG dynamic because, my boyfriend mentioned something about his ex wife categorizing him as a daddydom and it started my curiosity. After reading the forums and some articles about it, I'm struggling to decide if I really am a little or just like some things that seem very similar.
I like the controlling and dominant part from him and I love how protective and caring he is with me. My only real problem right now is that, his ex wife (who uses to be his little until she ran off with another man, more than once) just started staying with us because she got evicted and has some health issues or whatever her excuse might be. The thing is that we had talked about having some extra fun sometime with another girl in our bed and now he has asked me if I really want to try the Ddlg lifestyle and if I will be willing to let his ex wife be part of our bed (supposedly strictly sex, no spending time with her, or having any other type of relation but sex).
I'm in love with him and I want to do whatever it takes to make him happy and proud of me but, for some reason I'm having a hard time just thinking about the fact if his ex wife being around our sex life.
Am I being unreasonable or paranoid? Is this something I have to be willing to deal with if I want to be a little? Are all daddys going to ask for things like that?
I feel so happy with him and I don't wanna loose him but, I don't think if I can "share" him with her.