- 8 years ago
#8355
Hello. My name is Elizabeth and one thing that I struggled with starting out was finding good privileges for my little one. I have now figured out LOTS to do including seasonal and non-seasonal ones I could do. You can exchange the word mommy with daddy. This is just my personal list that I use to keep my little one in line. I thought I would share my list so if someone else is struggling with privileges to come up with this might help them. Let me know what you think!(:
******NONSEASONAL****
-coloring with mommy
-playing with play dough
- Good morning texts to wake up to telling me how important and loved I am
- Good night texts to see before I fall asleep that remind me there is no place you would rather be than with me
- Random thinking of you texts that help to keep me little throughout the day; remind me that I am your princess, baby girl, little one, and/or kitten - remind me that I am irreplaceable
- Genuine praise over the pictures I slave, but also enjoy to color for you (Not just an, “Oh, that’s nice” or “I like it” - this leads me to believe you either don’t like it, or don’t care)
- Small surprises - whether it’s my favorite little space snack (frosted animal crackers), food from my favorite place (McDonald’s), my favorite flower (peonies), or something little like a sippy cup or a new paci
- Consistent, but not constant attention
-playing with toys.
- Affection and physical touch; a pat on the head or a kiss on my forehead not only lets me feel your complete ownership over my mind, body, and soul, but also signifies your approval of my actions which is what I seek above all else
- And of course, stuffies, every little, ageplayer or not, requires stuffies. To hold, to play with, to sleep with - especially when mommys not around
- Watch anime together - Play video games together, this could be one plays while the other guides or playing in multiplayer
- Read together, stop after every chapter and discuss the book or manga - If either has homework, do it together and help each other out - Look up cute cosplays to do, it doesn’t mean you’ll do them but it’ll be fun -Watch twitch or YouTube gamers together - Play and teach each other trading card games. -Talk about space for a while. -Watch dorky movies, or old movies, and point out the obvious green screen and other visual enhancements - Go out somewhere just to lay back and look at the sky together, at night
****SEASONAL****
SPRING -Go to a Cherry Blossom festival–take a stuffie, wear your animal ears/tail, or even cosplay -Go play in the park with bubble wands -Swing on swings and slide down slides -Find a local playground or park and play around -Go see a movie -Go bowling -Go to an arcade -Go to the Aquarium -Go to the Planetarium -Go to the Zoo -Go to the Botanical Gardens -Go to a local coffee shop -Decorate egg cartons/make egg carton caterpillars -Throw a scavenger hunt and use color-coded egg cartons to gather your color-themed findings -Try a new restaurant or a different cuisine -Make a pillow fort -Make a tent out of bedsheets -Have a tea party with your stuffies
SUMMER -See a movie at a drive-in -Go to a theme park -Go to a water park or a local pool and get a floatie ball or kickboard -Play mini-golf -Go bowling -Go to an arcade -Go play in the park with bubble wands -Go to the beach and collect seashells or build sandcastles -Go find and eat at a sno-cone stand -Go get some fro-yo -Make home brewed iced tea or lemonade -Stargaze on a blanket -Find a local outdoor concert or outdoor movie in the park -Go fishing -Go camping -Go to the Zoo -Go to the Aquarium -Go to the Planetarium -Go to the Botanical Gardens -Go play with a jumbo frisbee in a park
FALL -Go to a pumpkin patch -Carve pumpkins -Season and bake pumpkin seeds -Drink apple cider, maybe with caramel and whipped cream on top -Drink hot chocolate, try different flavors -Go for a hayride–take your stuffies and take pictures -Throw a scavenger hunt–hunt for certain colors of leaves or sticks -Visit your local library -Go eat some apple, pumpkin, or pecan pie -Eat or make candy apples -Do a neat Halloween paper craft -Get some canvases and paint -Paint a pumpkin -Go to a haunted house -Take a haunted tour -Participate in a Zombie Walk -Tell scary stories -Make a scary movie list and watch them all -Do a puzzle -Make some origami animals
WINTER -Build a snowman and have a snowball fight -Go sledding or tubing -Make a snow angel or build a snow fort -Make paper snowflakes -Make a Xmas package for friends with candies, cookies and goodies -Drink eggnog -Make snow cream -Go ice skating -Visit a hot tub or a local hot spring -Donate food/clothes/toys/time to those in need -Make handwritten Xmas cards -Make reindeer hand paper crafts -Decorate a gingerbread house -Drive through a local Galaxy of Lights display -Go see a display at the Botanical Gardens -Get some canvases and paint -Make an advent calendar -Make an Xmas movie list and watch them all
******NONSEASONAL****
-coloring with mommy
-playing with play dough
- Good morning texts to wake up to telling me how important and loved I am
- Good night texts to see before I fall asleep that remind me there is no place you would rather be than with me
- Random thinking of you texts that help to keep me little throughout the day; remind me that I am your princess, baby girl, little one, and/or kitten - remind me that I am irreplaceable
- Genuine praise over the pictures I slave, but also enjoy to color for you (Not just an, “Oh, that’s nice” or “I like it” - this leads me to believe you either don’t like it, or don’t care)
- Small surprises - whether it’s my favorite little space snack (frosted animal crackers), food from my favorite place (McDonald’s), my favorite flower (peonies), or something little like a sippy cup or a new paci
- Consistent, but not constant attention
-playing with toys.
- Affection and physical touch; a pat on the head or a kiss on my forehead not only lets me feel your complete ownership over my mind, body, and soul, but also signifies your approval of my actions which is what I seek above all else
- And of course, stuffies, every little, ageplayer or not, requires stuffies. To hold, to play with, to sleep with - especially when mommys not around
- Watch anime together - Play video games together, this could be one plays while the other guides or playing in multiplayer
- Read together, stop after every chapter and discuss the book or manga - If either has homework, do it together and help each other out - Look up cute cosplays to do, it doesn’t mean you’ll do them but it’ll be fun -Watch twitch or YouTube gamers together - Play and teach each other trading card games. -Talk about space for a while. -Watch dorky movies, or old movies, and point out the obvious green screen and other visual enhancements - Go out somewhere just to lay back and look at the sky together, at night
****SEASONAL****
SPRING -Go to a Cherry Blossom festival–take a stuffie, wear your animal ears/tail, or even cosplay -Go play in the park with bubble wands -Swing on swings and slide down slides -Find a local playground or park and play around -Go see a movie -Go bowling -Go to an arcade -Go to the Aquarium -Go to the Planetarium -Go to the Zoo -Go to the Botanical Gardens -Go to a local coffee shop -Decorate egg cartons/make egg carton caterpillars -Throw a scavenger hunt and use color-coded egg cartons to gather your color-themed findings -Try a new restaurant or a different cuisine -Make a pillow fort -Make a tent out of bedsheets -Have a tea party with your stuffies
SUMMER -See a movie at a drive-in -Go to a theme park -Go to a water park or a local pool and get a floatie ball or kickboard -Play mini-golf -Go bowling -Go to an arcade -Go play in the park with bubble wands -Go to the beach and collect seashells or build sandcastles -Go find and eat at a sno-cone stand -Go get some fro-yo -Make home brewed iced tea or lemonade -Stargaze on a blanket -Find a local outdoor concert or outdoor movie in the park -Go fishing -Go camping -Go to the Zoo -Go to the Aquarium -Go to the Planetarium -Go to the Botanical Gardens -Go play with a jumbo frisbee in a park
FALL -Go to a pumpkin patch -Carve pumpkins -Season and bake pumpkin seeds -Drink apple cider, maybe with caramel and whipped cream on top -Drink hot chocolate, try different flavors -Go for a hayride–take your stuffies and take pictures -Throw a scavenger hunt–hunt for certain colors of leaves or sticks -Visit your local library -Go eat some apple, pumpkin, or pecan pie -Eat or make candy apples -Do a neat Halloween paper craft -Get some canvases and paint -Paint a pumpkin -Go to a haunted house -Take a haunted tour -Participate in a Zombie Walk -Tell scary stories -Make a scary movie list and watch them all -Do a puzzle -Make some origami animals
WINTER -Build a snowman and have a snowball fight -Go sledding or tubing -Make a snow angel or build a snow fort -Make paper snowflakes -Make a Xmas package for friends with candies, cookies and goodies -Drink eggnog -Make snow cream -Go ice skating -Visit a hot tub or a local hot spring -Donate food/clothes/toys/time to those in need -Make handwritten Xmas cards -Make reindeer hand paper crafts -Decorate a gingerbread house -Drive through a local Galaxy of Lights display -Go see a display at the Botanical Gardens -Get some canvases and paint -Make an advent calendar -Make an Xmas movie list and watch them all
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