Non BeDeeSeM Ddlg
Posted: |April 8th, 2015|, 11:44 am
Does a Ddlg have to involve BeDeeSeM aspects?
I'm kind of torn on the subject. I once saw a group for "Gentle Daddies and Sweet Littles" who felt that they weren't involved with much BeDeeSeM as a part of their Ddlg relationship. Daddy does take on a dominant, caregiver role that would indicate that there is some level of control or, well, dominance over the little. So...maybe they don't spank or something but, really, Daddy is still more dominant over the little so it is BeDeeSeM...right?
Thoughts? Serious question.
I'm kind of torn on the subject. I once saw a group for "Gentle Daddies and Sweet Littles" who felt that they weren't involved with much BeDeeSeM as a part of their Ddlg relationship. Daddy does take on a dominant, caregiver role that would indicate that there is some level of control or, well, dominance over the little. So...maybe they don't spank or something but, really, Daddy is still more dominant over the little so it is BeDeeSeM...right?
Thoughts? Serious question.