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I have been into ddlg for a while now but i never actually acted on it. And while I am ready to try and find a daddy, I recently got pregnant. I just want to ask anyone what their take on a little being pregnant is? And if there is a chance that I may find that someone special or if I should just give up while I am ahead?
I'm a parent.
It will change who you are in the long run but if you're a little then you're a little. I love my child and wouldn't give him up for the world. It hasn't made finding a daddy and harder. Truth is, when you find a daddy who is truly worthy of your time and love, they are going to accept the fact that you have a child and look that child too.
I actually would be fine with it. I think it is cute and sexy. But its more about how you feel if you are a little than that's you no matter if your pragnent or not.
I don't personally think you have to should ever feel like you need to change your role or anything like that just because you're going to have a biological child of your own soon. I wanted to reply even though I'm new here because I had read someone suggest that you become a Mommy or take on a caregiver role instead and this isn't something I really agree with 100%. And I wanted to let you know that this hasn't been necessary or my experience personally in my own case.
A lot of people including myself see their role as something deeply ingrained into them and as being a huge part of who they are as a person. It's not even always possible to change this so if you feel like you still need to be your little and/or submissive self, please don't feel like having a baby ever has to stop you.
I myself am a submissive little who also has a child and I have known many other girls in the same situation as me. As MooMooMixALot said, having a child WILL change you. But it won't change you in the ways that you'd expect. And it will be a positive change. However, this change doesn't mean that you are not going to be able to find a Daddy or that you'll never get to act small yourself and experience being a little again.
A good Daddy will not only care for you despite your having a child but will also grow to care for your child too as he/she will be an extension of yourself.
If you'd ever like to talk to another little/sub who has also gone through having a child (my son is two), please feel free to message me anytime. I'd really like to make some new friends anyway! Haha
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