- 7 years ago
#21240
I'm feeling the fiest and I need to rant for a moment so thank you for your time. I am SO motherfiretrucking SICK of getting messages from Dom's that IMMEDIATELY call me petnames (such as baby, kitten, sweetheart, etc.) For example, Me: "Hello :3" Them: "Hello, sweetheart." "Hey baby." "How's my sweet kitten? 
" NO. firetruck OFF. You do NOT get ownership and you are NOT entitled to every god damned little you find. Just because you're a Dom and I'm a Sub does NOT under any circumstance mean I am YOUR sub. I am a WOMAN. Let's pretend for a moment that we were to meet on the street or be introduced as a normal pair of people. Would you walk up and say "Hey baby" and WINK at me on the first date? The first meeting???? Think for just a moment how disrespectful that is!! Littles are PEOPLE and I speak for the men too that your Dom's should respect you more than that. Yes, the dynamic of our relationships are different. But there should be even MORE respect because of the sheer amount of trust this particular dynamic takes. Most Daddies and Littles have real, true, loving, meaningful relationships, and that's basically the point. A CG is more protective, caring and acts sometimes as a mentor. With that there needs to be RESPECT. And when you don't respect your little as the man or woman that they are...what kind of Dom are you? Entitled, that's what. I've had someone tell me to "not bother to message back" because I asked not to be called kitten right away. Another that I just encountered was very gracious about it and accepted my anger in stride and will most likely walk away with better understanding. As innocent as it may feel or seem to some of the ones that have done this, you need to step back son and think about it like this: just because this is the internet doesn't change the fact that we are people not playthings, there is someone on the other side of the keyboard. I don't want to be your evening slampiece or sex icon, I'm here to find a Daddy and be a part of the community which is extremely frustrating when you're bombarded with bullshit. To me, this isn't an evening kink. It's my god damned LIFE. 
" NO. firetruck OFF. You do NOT get ownership and you are NOT entitled to every god damned little you find. Just because you're a Dom and I'm a Sub does NOT under any circumstance mean I am YOUR sub. I am a WOMAN. Let's pretend for a moment that we were to meet on the street or be introduced as a normal pair of people. Would you walk up and say "Hey baby" and WINK at me on the first date? The first meeting???? Think for just a moment how disrespectful that is!! Littles are PEOPLE and I speak for the men too that your Dom's should respect you more than that. Yes, the dynamic of our relationships are different. But there should be even MORE respect because of the sheer amount of trust this particular dynamic takes. Most Daddies and Littles have real, true, loving, meaningful relationships, and that's basically the point. A CG is more protective, caring and acts sometimes as a mentor. With that there needs to be RESPECT. And when you don't respect your little as the man or woman that they are...what kind of Dom are you? Entitled, that's what. I've had someone tell me to "not bother to message back" because I asked not to be called kitten right away. Another that I just encountered was very gracious about it and accepted my anger in stride and will most likely walk away with better understanding. As innocent as it may feel or seem to some of the ones that have done this, you need to step back son and think about it like this: just because this is the internet doesn't change the fact that we are people not playthings, there is someone on the other side of the keyboard. I don't want to be your evening slampiece or sex icon, I'm here to find a Daddy and be a part of the community which is extremely frustrating when you're bombarded with bullshit. To me, this isn't an evening kink. It's my god damned LIFE. 
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