- 7 years ago
#21884
A really good punishment for Littles in a non physically intimate way, is to give them time to think about what they did. Like corner time, and after words have them come tell you what they did wrong and why it was wrong, or the phrase "I'm not mad I am disappointed" it really works on Littles that are being brats (rp ages that would understand it of course) taking away big kid underwear also works. If you have come to an agreement about it any form of humiliation punishment like posting punishment picture on you private ddlg/mdlb/ddlb/mdlg tumblr or blog about it, say what they did and their what their punishment is.
Early bed times, I had a little once that would lie to me about where she is going when she was in a bratty mood so she had to tell me where she was going before she started to leave where is was. Every day for a week. And if she didn't she got corner time.
No matter what your punishment is, it is very important to remember after care. Never let your little go to be thinking you hate them. You have to remind them you love them and you don't punish them because your mad, you punish them because you worry.
NEVER EVER PUNISH OUT OF ANGER. IF YOU ARE ANGRY WITH YOUR LITTLE (BECAUSE OF LITTLE ACTIONS) CORNER TIME FOR THEM AND ALONE TIME FOR YOU IS THE BEST OPTION. THINK about it for 20 min before you do anything else, and remember you are in a relationship, and have no right to truly hurt them or their feelings!
I hope this helps:)