TImeouts, writing lines, washing mouth out with soap, being grounded" from something for a certain amount of time, write an apology, adding chores, early bedtime, take away a stuffie, no "play time"
For me it's lack of attention, my old Daddy would punish me by ignoring me. He always loved seeing and watching me in scenes so if I was in trouble it would be lights off
I would be hysterical if my Murphy Bear was taken away-even for just an hour! That would be worse punishment than a spanking any day! Do you have a favorite thing?
My daddy does cold showers when I'm super bad. Nothing extreme just like 5 minutes in the cold shower while he watches making sure I don't switch it to heat or hop out
timeouts, writing lines, no desert, early bedtime, stuff like that. I agree with KellyBugg, that I shouldn't be fond of the punishment. If I were, then it isn't a punishment, and I can't learn to be better from it!
I have stickers taking off my chart, stuffies etc taken away, time outs, and early bedtimes. If ive been super bad then i get punishments saved for later when we 'play.' These tend to be spanking, not being allowed to play by myself or with Mommy etc
Time outs and corner time are the two that I don't like the most since I'm a hyper little thing . If I've been really bad, I have to write and read an "I'm sorry" letter and get Tumblr grounded. The whole point of a punishment is to correct wrong behavior. It's not supposed to be fun or feel nice but get the point across so the problem can be fixed. If spankings are just a solid no no for you then let that be known.