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How to have healthy long distance relationships with DDLG aspects

Posted: |May 16th, 2016|, 8:26 pm
by Sleepydaddy1993
hi littles
i was wondering how do littles deal with aspects of ddlg when they have a caregiver that lives in a different county or to far to visit every day
for e.g completing tasks, punishments and recieving rewards

Re: long distance relationships

Posted: |May 18th, 2016|, 1:38 pm
by Graciedoll
Well, when I complete a task, sometimes I'll send Daddy a picture of it :)
As of right now, I kind of do my own punishments/rewards. I've been little longer than I've had a daddy, so I kind of have a system in place. Though I do know of some littles that have sticker charts to track for rewards, and agreed-upon silent time from their daddies

Re: long distance relationships

Posted: |May 18th, 2016|, 6:52 pm
by _DaddysLittleGirl_
When I complete tasks I either send a video or a picture to my Daddy!

If and when I complete my tasks I get rewards! Sometimes I get praised, I get play time with Daddy on Skype or kik, I get to eat sweets (according to him sweets are EARNED) lol I dont like that rule :tears: But the greatest reward is knowing I have pleased Daddy and he says Im a "good girl" ::3:

I also love to draw and am always sending my Daddy pictures of them. He loves them and that makes me really happy :yay:

Punishment can vary. Sometimes he'll want a video or Skype me giving myself spanks. Or write 50 lines (ex. "I wont do that again" and Id send a picture. No sweets at all. Timeouts (I cant contact him for however long he says) (could be 24 hours or 3 days depending on the degree of disobedience) Or no skypeing him at all (skype is also earned by being a good girl) or No play time with Daddy at all :tears:

An idea to feel even closer is sending eachother stuff in the mail. A cute letter, u can send drawings, stuff like that. :eye:

My Daddy and I live in different states and Its hard but I get to talk to him everyday and see his handsome face :<3: Thats why I LOVE to skype him! Its like he's really there with me <3 at first I wasn't sure about long distance but I took the chance and I don't regret it! I feel like I left some stuff out lol but this is off the top of my head. If you need anymore input id be more than happy to help :yay: :D

Re: long distance relationships

Posted: |May 18th, 2016|, 8:40 pm
by Sleepydaddy1993
thanks for the replies
i havent been a daddy for long but this helps me learn how to be a great daddy