- 8 years ago
#11206
It depends largely on the person, typically I think it's more a question of quantity vs. quality. A clingy little who demands all of a person's time is similar to any clingy relationship where someone wants to monopolize their partners time, it can be a sign of codependency and can place a strain on the relationship if the daddy has other interests he would like to make time to pursue but can't as a result. The best solution is one of open communication and similar to other BeDeeSeM activities, a safety clause. Basically you can be as clingy and demanding as you like while you are a little, but be aware you have a lot of control over your partner's time, and they should feel comfortable enough to be able to communicate that they have other plans without feeling like they are rejecting you. Obviously there's a balance to that, and it changes depending on the Daddy but as long as they are willing to give you lots and lots of attention whenever they are willing and able, likewise be willing to give them space when they desire it as well.
Objectification when taken to real-world extremes can be emotionally damaging to someone, and despite the typical powerplay of daddies being doms, they can be easily objectified by their littles, so take care and remember they are a real person with real wants and interests just like you, let them indulge, and then they will be happy to come back and indulge you.
There are some people who always make you smile, who always make you happy, who always do their best to show you the positive side of everything. I hope to be one of those people.