When I complete tasks I either send a video or a picture to my Daddy!
If and when I complete my tasks I get rewards! Sometimes I get praised, I get play time with Daddy on Skype or kik, I get to eat sweets (according to him sweets are EARNED) lol I dont like that rule
But the greatest reward is knowing I have pleased Daddy and he says Im a "good girl"
I also love to draw and am always sending my Daddy pictures of them. He loves them and that makes me really happy
Punishment can vary. Sometimes he'll want a video or Skype me giving myself spanks. Or write 50 lines (ex. "I wont do that again" and Id send a picture. No sweets at all. Timeouts (I cant contact him for however long he says) (could be 24 hours or 3 days depending on the degree of disobedience) Or no skypeing him at all (skype is also earned by being a good girl) or No play time with Daddy at all
An idea to feel even closer is sending eachother stuff in the mail. A cute letter, u can send drawings, stuff like that.
My Daddy and I live in different states and Its hard but I get to talk to him everyday and see his handsome face
Thats why I LOVE to skype him! Its like he's really there with me <3 at first I wasn't sure about long distance but I took the chance and I don't regret it! I feel like I left some stuff out lol but this is off the top of my head. If you need anymore input id be more than happy to help