[PrincessSnowStuffie]

Remember the #1 rule on here.

• Just because you're a daddy, doesn't make you automatically someone else's daddy. It takes time to get to know you're little.

Word of advice too:

• Check the profiles of Littles and read their posts (click on the blue number by "number of posts" on their profile) and scroll through them. It helps to know a bit about their personality before you speak to them.

If you're new to CGL, please state that and don't automatically look for someone and latch onto them just to get into a relationship.

It's a relationship, it's not suppose to be speed dating.

• PM littles you're actually interested in instead of PMing a bunch, only to let the rest down when you only choose one.

• Please be mindful of and open to all littles. I'm not saying you have to change your preferences, I'm saying some littles are sensitive to topics that may trigger them and/or other littles might not be interested in the same thing you are. Be mindful and aware.

• Please be careful of what you say to a little, because some of us littles, sensitive or non-sensitive, with or without caregivers, have been exposed to things that can easily trigger us. Some people on here actually don't see that some topics can harm us in some way.

• Include all littles/caregivers into the conversation. I'm talking about the chat. We lurk because we have no one to talk to. Shoot us a pm, caregiver or little. (I'm sadly one of the people that often gets kicked out of conversations and doesn't get attention.)

For all littles:

I'm always here if you want to talk or need advice. ^^ Don't be sad. It gets better. Don't be in a rush to get a daddy just because you're lonely or want one. The right daddy will come to you and he will make it worth the time you waited. Be aware of fake daddies, lovelies. <3





I know, I kinda went all over the place with this, but my mind's everywhere right now, it's just the type of person I am. Sorry.


<3XOXOXOXOXOSnowBunnyMelonaXOXOXOXOXOXOXOX<3

[nova_star]

reading this honestly made me feel better. my daddy broke up with me about a week or so ago and i didn't cry when he did. He told me he has to focus on other things in his life and work things out at the moment and doing so while in a long distance relationship was hard for him. I just feel heartbroken because I liked him a lot....even though it was a 2 month, was going on 3 month relationship I just liked him a lot. This post honestly put my mind at ease and that I don't need to rush to find someone, so thank you so much

[babyprincesscupcakes]

I really needed this. I've had one daddy, ever, and I really really loved him. Our breakup was earth shattering for me, and I'm constantly scared I'm never going to find someone new. This gave me hope and reminded me to stay positive. Thank you<3

[LitttleMermaidd420]

You are so lovely Princess snow stuffie!
I'm new to this world so I am a little more quiet than I want to be but this community is so welcoming, I'm happy I finally have a place to go to meet other littles

[Princess_hayden5]

I've just joined and I'm a little shy but your words have encouraged me and I want to thank you for that since I'm new to this lifestyle your words eased some of my fears and to all the littles have commented just know it's going to be okay and that I love all of you and that everything will get better...and if you want a new friend I am available and I'm a great listener

[Kashalita]

Thank you for writing this. I been feeling in a daze.
My first and only Daddy ended that part of our relationship but is still my fwb and I'm so confused and sad... And I started talkin to someone new in here an I really liked him but he went camping after one week...an I don't think he's coming back. I don't know what to think.

[KittenBlossomxXx]

this is perfect. I hope lots of people read this I get that many people are new, and I wrote a rant about talking to Littles earlier. Some people grind my gears!