- 9 years ago
#220
This is going to sound odd to a lot of people. I was thinking--I've been thinking--and I'm not sure if I'm really considered to be in a true ddlg relationship. Why?
My Daddy isn't a dominant.
Not in the BeDeeSeM sense anyway.
Sure, Daddy guides me and gives me direction. He will take the lead. He will comfort and console me. He keeps an eye out on my safety and will absolutely protect me when needed.
He doesn't punish me though. We don't do spankings or anything of the sort. He doesn't have a list of rules laid out that I need to follow. He doesn't tie me down or up. He doesn't have 'special playtime' with me in a rough or aggressive manner.
Daddy would never call me a easy adult entertainer or wench. He would never hit me for any reason, any where. Daddy would never hold me down or being aggressive with me--especially if it's just over him being aroused and wanting to get his cummy out. My Daddy is not any of those things that seem to be the mold.
We're twisty though. Daddy is always my Daddy. I'm always Daddy's little girl. He always takes the sort-of parental role with me and I submit to him because that's just how my personality naturally is about these things. He is gentle and caring.
Daddy is fulfilled.
I am fulfilled.
If either of us were into punishments, spankings, and aggressiveness then I don't think we would be together at all. Neither of us are interested in those things.
We feel like our relationship is right. We're not normal, no, but we're both quite happy about what we do and how we function.
Are there other "Ddlg" couples that don't do BeDeeSeM things? That don't do the spankings, punishments, rules, or other things that seem to be so commonly strung along with it? Are we the only ones? Does our kink not fit into this mold?
We've searched a little bit and have found very few people who are kind of vanilla Ddlg. BeDeeSeM? No, thank you. Ddlg? Yes, yes please.
My Daddy isn't a dominant.
Not in the BeDeeSeM sense anyway.
Sure, Daddy guides me and gives me direction. He will take the lead. He will comfort and console me. He keeps an eye out on my safety and will absolutely protect me when needed.
He doesn't punish me though. We don't do spankings or anything of the sort. He doesn't have a list of rules laid out that I need to follow. He doesn't tie me down or up. He doesn't have 'special playtime' with me in a rough or aggressive manner.
Daddy would never call me a easy adult entertainer or wench. He would never hit me for any reason, any where. Daddy would never hold me down or being aggressive with me--especially if it's just over him being aroused and wanting to get his cummy out. My Daddy is not any of those things that seem to be the mold.
We're twisty though. Daddy is always my Daddy. I'm always Daddy's little girl. He always takes the sort-of parental role with me and I submit to him because that's just how my personality naturally is about these things. He is gentle and caring.
Daddy is fulfilled.
I am fulfilled.
If either of us were into punishments, spankings, and aggressiveness then I don't think we would be together at all. Neither of us are interested in those things.
We feel like our relationship is right. We're not normal, no, but we're both quite happy about what we do and how we function.
Are there other "Ddlg" couples that don't do BeDeeSeM things? That don't do the spankings, punishments, rules, or other things that seem to be so commonly strung along with it? Are we the only ones? Does our kink not fit into this mold?
We've searched a little bit and have found very few people who are kind of vanilla Ddlg. BeDeeSeM? No, thank you. Ddlg? Yes, yes please.