- 8 years ago
#4431
Does anyone dislike the idea of being a princess but are very much into DDlg things?
Sometimes I feel a bit strange because I see everyone referring to littles (especially female littles) as princesses and I have no desire to be called that whatsoever.
When my Daddy and I were first getting into our DDlg dynamic he asked if there was a special petname, like princess, that I enjoyed. I told him that I really preferred him not refer to me as a princess in any way because I don't like the idea of being spoiled, bratty, and feeling entitled. "Princess" to me sounds like that so I've shied away from it entirely. Daddy found a different pet name to call me though that was much more suitable for us.
And by spoiled I mean--given gifts or taken excessive amounts of time/attention despite the Caregiver having other obligations. Like, I enjoy being "spoiled" by Daddy giving me extra kisses or something, but if he were to buy everything for me that I wanted then I'd feel really uncomfortable and strange. It would just devalue gifts, in my eyes, so then I'd feel entitled to always receive everything I wanted. Hmm...
Almost just thinking out loud here now.
Does anyone else want to be babied and loved and treated little by their Daddy, Mommy, or Caregiver but they don't want to spoiled in the traditional gifts/goodies/money/full-attention sense?
Sometimes I think I'm the strangest little of them all...
Sometimes I feel a bit strange because I see everyone referring to littles (especially female littles) as princesses and I have no desire to be called that whatsoever.
When my Daddy and I were first getting into our DDlg dynamic he asked if there was a special petname, like princess, that I enjoyed. I told him that I really preferred him not refer to me as a princess in any way because I don't like the idea of being spoiled, bratty, and feeling entitled. "Princess" to me sounds like that so I've shied away from it entirely. Daddy found a different pet name to call me though that was much more suitable for us.
And by spoiled I mean--given gifts or taken excessive amounts of time/attention despite the Caregiver having other obligations. Like, I enjoy being "spoiled" by Daddy giving me extra kisses or something, but if he were to buy everything for me that I wanted then I'd feel really uncomfortable and strange. It would just devalue gifts, in my eyes, so then I'd feel entitled to always receive everything I wanted. Hmm...
Almost just thinking out loud here now.
Does anyone else want to be babied and loved and treated little by their Daddy, Mommy, or Caregiver but they don't want to spoiled in the traditional gifts/goodies/money/full-attention sense?
Sometimes I think I'm the strangest little of them all...