A question or two; for littles old or new! From a Daddy Dom

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miimii
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Re: A question or two; for littles old or new! From a Daddy Dom

Postby miimii » 5 months ago

I am very new to this dynamic and I wish I did know back then but my first time was not something I would like to remember. I recently found out about this lifestyle through curiosity. When I researched into being a little I realized that I was a little for I enjoyed many of the things that what describe a little. I would draw the line at abuse when any type of physical contact that can harm me is done without confirming if it may be used for a punishment or when done out of anger.
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princ3ssbunbun
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Re: A question or two; for littles old or new! From a Daddy Dom

Postby princ3ssbunbun » 4 months ago

The line between abuse and bdsm is and always should be very clear between you and your partner. Its always about consent! Consent is always always always what makes something bdsm versus abuse. Talk to your partner about what's okay and what's not and ALWAYS have a safe word!!!!


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Kashalita
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Re: A question or two; for littles old or new! From a Daddy Dom

Postby Kashalita » 4 months ago

I've always been very submissive sensually and over time I realized that I was attracted to older men or men who had kids of their own.
I love pleasing my partner in whatever he wanted, but I've never enjoyed being hurt or humilatrd- it had to come from live-action and at the same time my personal fantasies involved being very young.
Recently I discovered that I could have it all in a Dd/bg dynamic.


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TinyRose
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Re: A question or two; for littles old or new! From a Daddy Dom

Postby TinyRose » 4 months ago

What is your little definition of true abuse and where is the line drawn?
For me it becomes abuse when its no longer consensual, a yes last night is not a yes this morning, you should always ask whats okay and whats not okay before any "play time". If I wanna be slapped in the face right now to the point I'm yelling "Slap me slap me please!" then you can slap me, but if I'm not expressing any want for it, then its not okay. If I want slaps, but don't want them after a certain point, that should be respected and if it goes further than what I'm comfortable with, then it becomes abuse.

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AmyBaby
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Re: A question or two; for littles old or new! From a Daddy Dom

Postby AmyBaby » 3 months ago

I read about adult babies when i was 12 and knew it appealed to me but we somewhat creeped out by news casts and documentaries in youtube that i watched and combined with the odd name i didn't like and some backlash from my family, i abandoned it. And so i turned 17, had relations, Turned 18 and then 19 and entered into my first very serious relationship (like engaged and talking about marriage and kids type serious) and we had a lot of problems and i have some emotional scars left over but looking back on that, I picked a dominant male which i liked but he used his dominance for anger and not for love and really that was the root of the issue so I ended it and turned 20, and shortly before 21 i decided to look some more into abdl because i have come back to it many times and never acted on it. only this time i stumbled really on the term littlespace which lead to the term little and i identify so so much more with those than i do with adult baby. Maybe because my little age is about 2-3 or maybe because of negative connotations but either way i had a name and a new love for it and decided to online date and met someone and for the first time in a long time i feel accepted, understood, loved, cherished, and overall i feel like i'm not hiding anymore

When it comes to littlespace and bdsm in general, I drawn the line when partners are no longer being respected. You might talk about a smack in the face before you engage in play or you might smack the sub and then ask if they liked it. I think i'd draw the line when a partner has said clearly that they are not enjoying that aspect of the play and would like if it stopped and the other refuses to stop. Like calling a safe word and someone ignoring it. And i always think its a good idea to discuss new things either beforehand if you are thinking about it before or as a follow up because it gives the sub that time to say if they liked something or not. It avoids those things. I think a sub should always feel respected and trust the dom enough to say anything they need to.


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