Fat, young littles don't get taken seriously by Daddy Doms

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newlittle
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Fat, young littles don't get taken seriously by Daddy Doms

Postby newlittle » 8 months ago

I'm eighteen and overweight. Every daddy I talk to either ignores me after the first picture or says I'm too young to have any experience. How do I gain experience if nobody will give me a chance? Is there such a thing as a daddy that truly is willing to teach and help or is that only for skinnier more biologically mature littles?

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littlefox
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Re: Fat, young littles don't get taken seriously

Postby littlefox » 8 months ago

I'm sure there are Daddies out there that are into bigger littles. I really doubt your weight would have any influence on your perfect Daddy that is somewhere out there!

The age thing I can understand. Some people are probably scared that you're not really into this and just experimenting when they're looking for someone fully committed. I'm not saying you aren't fully committed, but I know when I was around your age a lot of people would say "Are you sure you're into this?"

You just have to wait it out to find your right Daddy! I've been waiting for years, but I know I'll find them eventually :luff:
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Fussyfangs
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Re: Fat, young littles don't get taken seriously

Postby Fussyfangs » 8 months ago

Ouch, that's a rough position to be in. I guess the best advice I can give is not to give up. If you have other little friends, maybe ask them what their approach was when looking for a daddy? The kind of daddy you're looking for should be willing to teach as well as engage you, so maybe just be upfront with them, which I mean, your username is pretty indicative there.

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Abi
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Re: Fat, young littles don't get taken seriously

Postby Abi » 8 months ago

Awwwww ... I'm so sorry to hear that, NewLittle.

I've always thought, though, that one of the great joys of the internet is that you interact directly with the REAL person ... the INNER person ... without any of the distractions or the prejudices which can be created by having to interact with that person through the medium of their physical body. So you get to know a person's real inner personality ... which you cannot always achieve IRL.

When I chat with people online, I don't know if they're tall or short, fat or thin, able bodied or disabled, old or young, black or white (or anything else ... little green creature from Alpha Centurai, maybe), straight or gay (or any other of the many possible sensual orientations), male or female even in many cases, unless they choose to tall me. And for many purposes, they don't need to tell me and I don't need to ask.

So I'd suggest that when you meet a potential daddy online, don't be in a hurry to send them that picture. Spend time getting to know them and revealing your true personality to them. If they're the right daddy for you, they will grow to love that personality for what it is. And once they do that, they won't care what kinda body it's housed in ... so when you do decide it's time to send them a picture they won't be put off.

I do hope you find someone who's right for you ... and I'm sure you will.


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