Tips on telling a partner about being a little or adult baby
Being able to express oneself is an important aspect to adult babies and littles. A part of this expression may involve telling a boyfriend, girlfriend, husband, wife, or other romantic partner about their age regression or childlike interests. At some point, most adult babies or littles will feel the need to find the proper wording, information resources, and perfect timing to have this important conversation with their partner.
When a little chooses to tell a trusted loved one about their interest then it is important they choose wording and timing carefully. A direct statement is best to start out with when approaching the topic, and both parties should be focused on conversing rather than multitasking light conversation. It is also crucial that both parties have undivided attention during the conversation to reduce misunderstandings.
The little must be ready to answer upfront questions their partner may have about the lifestyle and how they would expect to be involved in it. It is recommended that the little make a clear list of information articles and websites that are available to the public to provide to help answer follow-up questions and give their partner additional insight. The little must also be ready to answer basic questions such as:
- Okay, so, what is this Caregiver/little or Adult Baby thing you're talking about exactly?
- Where did you learn about being a little, age regressor, or adult baby anyway?
- Where can I learn more about these things so I can understand what you're talking about better?
- Does this lifestyle have anything to do with children or child involvement?
- When did you decide you wanted to be a part of this regression thing?
- How long have you been interested in age regressing?
- Do you expect to regress with me often or that I participate in your regression?
- So, how do other couples work together when one of them is interested in this type of thing?
- If this is such an important thing to you then why didn't you tell me sooner?
- What do you do when you regress?
- Where do you do these things at?
- Have you told anyone else about your regression tendencies? If so, how did they respond to it?
- Okay, so, now that I know you're a little or adult baby, how am I suppose to treat you?
Littles and adult babies should make a handwritten or typed out list prior to revealing themselves. Being well prepared in this manner can be an extremely important factor in reducing anxiety and misunderstandings. It is also crucial that the little does not take offense to the questions being asked and approaches the situation not in a defensive manner, but, rather, in an informative state.
One should also be prepared for both a positive or a negative reaction from their partner. Prior preparation can help them react more appropriately and not in any extreme manners. A little should think very clearly about what they could potentially gain from expressing themselves to help with self-encouragement. Ultimately, the reaction isn't something that can be controlled so it's important all real possibilities are thought out thoroughly before proceeding forward, and the little or adult baby should be well-prepared with resources and to give their partner time to take all of the information in and understand it.
After the conversation has ended and both parties are researching, exchanging resources, and relaxing from the tension then the little should consider when to bring the topic up again. Preferably, the topic should be brought up one to two weeks later to encourage their partner to continue researching if desired or begin participating if they feel comfortable that point. The little should be prepared that point to provide a couple of starter suggestions for their newly-discovered caregiver if they are interested. If their partner is firmly not interested in pursuing the dynamic further than their initial research then the little should consider if their lack of participation is an acceptable compromise in the relationship for them or not.
This is one of the largest steps in a littles or adult babies life so they should consider this to be something of a serious matter that shouldn't be taken lightly. Being fully prepared prior to choosing to explain the interest to a friend or family member is crucial. Preparation methods as thinking about developing clear wording, being prepared with informative resources and answers to question, and being emotionally stable for either good or bad outcome may prove to be vital in having a calm, informative conversation with their beloved partner.
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