Before sending messages to the administrator ("admin") about being unable to create new posts or reply to pre-existing posts in the personals sections, your account status, seeing user profiles, sending private messages, or using the live chat room please review this help topic.

• • If you are unable to log in then please try to reset your password before contacting us!
  • If you do not know the e-mail address associated with your account we cannot use magic to retrieve the information!
  • Please check your account notifications for any community warnings you need to settle.

• Account deactivation is permanent. Please do not ask that we reactivate your account you chose to deactivate previously.
  - - - We do not reactivate accounts! - We do not reactivate accounts! - We do not reactivate accounts! - - -
  - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - You may permanently deactivate your account at any time. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - -

• We do not delete, remove, or erase posts. When requested, we will only retract specific personally-identifying information such as: biological or "real" name, physical or mailing address, e-mail address, screen names or links for external contact methods, photos, and private phone numbers.
  • We cannot retract information sent within private messages to other members.

If your account has been banned please know that:

• All users on our site are required to be 18 years or older. Bans for being underage are permanent.
• We do not support, encourage, or condone incest or child involvement--including fantasies--or persons interested in those acts.
• Users must maintain a reasonable level of respect and tolerance when communicating with others in our community.