My spouse wants to live a fantasy life and nothing short of it will suffice. I feel used and taken advantage of by giving my all and pouring my heart into setting up a life that had constant caregiving and regressing as daily staples. A couple of days ago I caught my Little/partner cheating with a D...

I’m really sorry your previous partner wasn’t a good match. I know it can be a challenge finding the right partner, and I think you mentioned 2 really big red flags to keep an eye out for in the future when getting to know Caregivers! Check out this post for some really important points I put togeth...

I get the feeling that the underlying notion here is that you don’t want to really invest yourself into someone else or a serious relationship but also don’t expect the other person to seriously or deeply invest either. That you want to be obligation-free and keep your anonymity to a point. Perhaps ...

It’s okay to not be overly experienced in relationships, regardless of the Caregiver/Little dynamic involved. Take the time to understand and be well with yourself and who you are first. A good starting place in the community is understanding the basic foundations, which can be found through our res...

Hey, welcome welcome! Glad you found us here. So, the first thing you need to know is that littlespace is basically a form of self-expression. It isn’t actually a magical experience where you’re out of control, incapable, or unable to control your mind, body, or actions. You should not forget what y...

I recommend you check this out first:

https://www.littlespaceonline.com/viewtopic.php?f=177&t=28072

I can understand how you feel. I also want those closest to me to know me deeply and accept me too. It sounds like you feel good about having what you’ve identified as alters so it makes sense you want that accepted. Assuming you’ve read my initial reply before this, if you believe you have multiple...

Age regression or “littlespace” is not a mental illness, impairment, or disorder. That being said, you should always feel in control and aware of yourself. It shouldn’t ever feel like you’ve truly forgotten how to function, maintain your own levels of safety, or perform important tasks that may unex...

Please start by reading through our free resource section, which will answer majority of your questions and give you general information about our identities within the community: https://www.littlespaceonline.com/viewforum.php?f=88 Learning takes time so be patient in educating yourself, and defini...

I think I’d just let this slide if not approached directly about it. If someone does approach you more directly you could blow it off with a laugh like, “Yeah, haha, I was just being ultra cringey in another chat! lol” (Not that actually is cringey, but saying it that way might avoid follow-up quest...