I'm asexual, too! Potentially demisexual but, honestly, as someone who got out of a relationship that went on for about 9 years and my partner and I never got intimate nor did we ever ask for those things.
There's something wonderful about just vibing with each other and not needing a lot.
My ex-partner was also supportive when I got into this community. She said it wasn't her "thing" but she thought it was cute! I definitely felt better finding this community since it helped me understand myself a lot more!