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  • Name: Tomás
  • Biological Age: 21
  • Height: 5.4
  • Weight: 135
  • Location: Minnesota, Hennepin County
  • Occupation: Student/part time job
  • Current Marital or Relationship Status: Always been single so far
  • physically intimate orientation: Gay/Homosexual
  • DateCGL.com Username: 972T
  • What are some things that have led you to identifying as a little?
    If I grab a toy I start playing with it without thinking. I love teddy bears. Specially my big teddy bear. I can't see him and just walk away without giving him a hug or a kiss. I love to wear cute clothes, onesies, shortalls. There is a part of me that hasn't completly come out yet that loves to be taking care of with lots of love and affection.
  • What type of partner are you looking for here?
    Someone close to my age. An affectionate daddy that can only have eyes for me. No big punishment like spankings. Also willing to have a relation with moments in which we could be just two adult guys. I want him to know every side of me and I want to know every side of him. I would like to start as friends and from there something deeper. I don't want to rush anything, baby steps.
  • Are you open to long distance relationships or only local?
    I would rather local. If I end up getting to close to that person I wouldn't want to lose him because of the distance.
  • Describe your perfect match and some great qualities that they would have:
    Affectionate, loyal, sweet, open minded, honest, responsible.
  • Are you into physically intimate or nonsexual Caregiver/little play?
    Both, I'm discovering more the nonsexual though is hard with so little time available.
  • Do you prefer polyamorous or monogamous relationships?
    Monogamous. Is 100% or 0%. Nothing in between. I can't even consider the idea of been close like that to more than one guy.
  • How long have you been into the Caregiver/little dynamic?
    In as in actually doing it? Never. As in I would love to get into it, about half a year now.
  • What are you looking for in a Caregiver Dom?
    A daddy who guides me and takes care of me. Who spoils me rotten. That would never hurt me physically or emotionally neither mentally. That likes the nosexual as much as the physically intimate. Who understands the needs of both my little and adult sides. Who is always there for me.
  • What do you think you have to offer to a Caregiver?
    A challenge. I'm really complicated as a person. As a little I don't know yet, but likely.
    Even though I would love to be taken care of I would respect that he also has his own needs.
    Total loyalty and honesty.
  • What are some punishments you prefer for being disciplined, corrected, or guided?
    I hate punishments but if I had to choose. Time outs. Perfect to understand my mistakes and calmw down. Taking temporarily away some toys or things I like, for a short time, less than a day. Just seen someone I love angry at me hurts me enough to make me want to be good. No spankings or the like.
  • What are rewards or reward methods you enjoy?
    I don't know. He would have to surprise me.
  • Describe one of your favorite nonsexual fantasies or scenarios:
    Daddy is carrying me to my room with a warm bottle and puts me in his lap and feeds me while rubbing my tummy. Once I finished he puts me on my crib and reads a book until I fall asleep. Them he kisses me sweetly on the forehead.
  • What are some general nicknames you like to call your Caregiver?
    Daddy. That's the main one I think. It would depend on his name. I might make up a nickname that sounds more adorable. That would make the nickname more personal and special.
  • What do you think makes a Caregiver Dom different than a regular or general Dominant?
    I'm not so sure. I'm not experienced in either one. I guess the caregiver has more control on the little, but at the same time because the little depends more on the caregiver he has to put much more attention to his little.
  • What are 5 nonsexual things you enjoy?
    Hugging my big teddy bear.
    Watching disney and dreamworks movies.
    Drawing.
    Building with blocks.
    Building houses with blankets and bed sheets.
  • What are 3 movies you enjoy?
    How to train your dragon
    Walle
    Wreck it Ralph
  • What are 3 of your favorite foods?
    Pasta with tune, mayo and corn.
    Ajiaco. A colombian soup made of corn, chicken, three different potatoes, yuca.
    Lentils. A colombian recipe to be more precise called Lentejas
  • What are 3 of your favorite songs, bands, or musical artists?
    Fireflies from Owl City
    A japanese band called Sketchbook (know them thanks to the anime Sket Dance)
    The Latin Spanish version of the song "I'm still here" from the disney movie Treasure Planet
  • What is something you have recently learned?
    That I love teddy bears. I just got the courage of buying a huge teddy bear in front of my mo and admit I wanted it.
  • What is your current biggest life achievement?
    I don't want to talk about it.
  • During an argument or disagreement with a partner, how do you typically react?
    I hate figths but because I never been in a relation I don't know. With others I just walk away.
  • What are some other things you would like to tell a potentially interested partner about yourself?
    I suffer from depression. I hate any kind of subtance that makes you dependant (alcohol, cigars, marihuana, drugs, etc.) and I never tried nor will I try any of them. Not even pills medicated for depression. Hate them all. I'm socially ackward, that's because I haven't had that much interaction with people since I was a kid. That changed when I stared working work, but I'm still ackward, people in my job said it. People like me easily. Most people at my job said they love when I'm around. Even at school people that I don't interact much with. I talk a lot when I feel comfortable. Right now writing this is easy because the probabilities of someone getting inside this post are really small, and the probablities of someone reading the whole think are near impossible. I'm a pessimist with hope that things can go great yet doubting they will. If you got this far you better know I'm looking for the love of my life. A special someone I've been waiting for a long time. Don't even bother trying to get me into a meaningless relation. And fakes, you're the worst.
Last bumped by 972T 6 years ago.
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