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Sharing advice on how to seek, manage, and maintain a relationship that includes CGL identities.
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Been with her for some time, helped her discover how far she actually wanted to go and she even helped me as well further understand what I wanted. He were enjoying our new life together every day and things were going amazing. She admitted so many personal things including insecurities and fears that I worked hard on helping her with.

But for several days she went silent after visiting family and her ex showed up, she told me she was going to stand against him but she went radio silent on me but today she started going on about obligations to her family and faith and just like that she was gone.

I sacrificed so much for her to help her out and now I'm feeling used. Just so upsetting that it ended this way as she kept telling me I was everything she wanted in a Daddy. We watched cartoons together, I fed her and we were about to work out way to padding and changes. Just so heart broken.
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It sounds like her family has brain washed her with religion to be honest with you. It is either that or she is back with the ex and did not want to be honest. Either way you did not deserve her to use you and leave you like that. Hope that you take the time to heal and if you and her do get back together talk about rules more and what is and not allowed. It does look bad right now and it could be that she is just confused and her family got to her as well. It seems like this is happening more these days in this community. I hope it all works out for you in the end. Take the time you will need to heal your heart.
Thanks for such kind words but I know I'd never be able to take her back now. I've had horrible luck with relationships (3 serious ones as I don't want short flings) that have now all ended in unfaithfulness now. It hurts yes for sure but I'll heal over time and will try again, I've held onto hope all these years and don't plan on stopping as this is the kind of life long relationship I'd want.

Will continue being patient though as I want the right little in my life. Again thanks for the support and views on the matter as it helps me trying to understand it.
That must stink :sadno:
but she’s clearly not the right one then. Just keep looking (:
Maybe someone you know in real life will show up and you can convert them. You just have to find the right girl for it, I guess like a needle in a haystack, but I bet she’s in there somewhere!
Hey man, I'm so sorry to hear about what happened to you. I know how it feels to go through something like this. Hopefully, after some healing, you can bounce back and find someone who's perfect for you. Stay strong. You'll get there. We all will.

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