Sharing advice on how to seek, manage, and maintain a relationship that includes CGL identities.
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Understand that partnerships that include CGL identities are romances, regardless of sexual components. A partnership between a Little and a Caregiver is very emotionally charged. With this being said:

  • General dating advice and etiquette still applies. Look up tips for typical dating standards because the CGL portion is only an addition onto a regular romance!
  • Not every Caregiver will be magically compatible with every Little, yourself included. Don’t demand love where love doesn’t grow; all people, including Caregivers, have their own set of needs!
  • Standing out can be beneficial. If you’re doing what everyone else is doing, looking like everyone else, talking like everyone else, and reciting the generic basics of being a little then you’re just blending in with everyone else. You should stand out so that your partner-to-be can see just how special you are!
  • You must maintain standards and develop your own criteria in filtering through those that are available. Settling for what you can get right now isn’t always a good idea!
  • You must match on many levels, exceeding your prospective partner’s parental care and your regression. Caregivers aren’t toys, and you’ll be expected to help them, support them, invest in them, and cherish them as an equal partner too!
  • Do not agree to a relationship without having spent time learning about the other person. If you don’t know who they are on multiple, deep levels then you don’t know them well enough to trust they will consistently care for you in such a deeply special way!
  • As exciting as it may be, expect strong partnerships to take time to develop. Talk as friends for awhile before agreeing to titles and let your relationship develop, grow, and flourish as naturally as it will do!

The community dating site, DateCGL:

https://www.DateCGL.com/

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