- 1 month ago #54671
hi. i don't know if this is in any way helpful, but maybe an 'older' little that can attest to their own stability throughout their life would be a more suitable partner for you. if you haven't already, start reading about how to identify certain psychological variables and form a 'screening' process for when, or if, you are ready to move forward with another CGL relationship. it might seem less natural getting to know someone like that, but you owe it to yourself to have a healthy relationship with someone that cares enough about you to not leave you in that manner. suicide, or leaving in the pretense of suicide, is a very selfish thing to do to one's partner. don't feel bad about putting your needs first. the right one will balance that out so that it's not an issue. CGL dynamics are two way streets, no matter if you're the caretaker or the caretakee. sending love and positive affirmations. the way is forward.