[Teaguen]

Social Anxiety is NOT a mental illness. It IS a physical disorder that does NOT allow for normal/socially acceptable interaction with people. The signs of social anxiety are: hiding, running, ignoring others, 'peeking' around corners, nervousness in groups of three or more. To help someone with this patience is the key. To tell someone that they make themselves unapproachable is NOT...I repeat NOT helpful. It just makes that person feel WORSE than they already do. Do not judge someone based on their actions. ASK them if they're okay. If they say no then try to find out why. If they clam up leave them alone. I was diagnosed with Multiple Anxiety Disorder when I was 8 years old. One of the anxieties involved is severe social anxiety. My reactions are conditioned meaning I learned them from being treated like garbage and being threatened with violence if I spoke in public. With that being said people who suffer from anxiety need compassion not ignorant b.s. So please...if you notice someone who is socially awkward...approach them slowly and let them set the pace.