1. Please see
this post about asking other people to determine your little age. Understand that you've listed off generic interests not even specifically related to regression and that nobody is going to know you better than you know yourself. What I mean is, anyone can like naps, coloring, and Disney, most people like to cuddle with their loved one(s), and everyone wants to be loved ("taken care of"). Intricate adult coloring books are very popular now with people of all personality types, nearly everyone can enjoy a good nap, and even though I'm a Caregiver only I really do enjoy Disney movies quite a lot. These things do not make, or mean that a person is, a little.
You will need to do some initial self-exploration to begin discovering this sort of thing about yourself.
Being a little isn't just about having a handful of generic interests or things you can tolerate that you feel are linked more closely to biological childhood than typical adulthood.
It's really about a personality type, a natural way of thinking and your unique characteristics, that extends far past the idea of immaturity. It's related to your natural behaviors, your logic and way of processing information, your emotional responses, what drives your habits and the choices you make, and just generally your base perceptions.
Disney movie example:
It's much, much more than the idea that you like to watch Disney movies. It's
the reason why you like to watch Disney movies and how that reason connects to natural, automatic regression. I don't mean the reason being, "I'm a little so logically I like Disney!" but more like, "When I watch a Disney movie I feel like a child again. So much like a child that I forget I have an adult-sized body! I get swept up into the film as if I'm a part of it, like a child sitting on the sidelines watching my friends interact with one another. Sometimes I get so into things that I accidentally start interacting back with the screen like children do. I can't help but forget about everything else going on. The storylines are so engaging. The movies seem so real in the moment and I'm happy. I love being able to run up to my Caregiver after the movie is over and excitedly tell them about what happened and how good it was!"
See, I am a Caregiver and I really enjoy animated film a lot. It's actually my preference to watch G/PG rated movies. They don't cause me to feel regressed or like a child though. I just like how they're gentle and tame but still entertaining enough for me usually. Are they the most entertaining thing I can watch? No, and I don't believe they are entertaining to me in the same way they are for a little, but if I'm just relaxing at home then, sure, maybe I'll turn something on that gives me a break from taking everything quite seriously. I don't become engulfed in the film or forget about anything else existing, and I think those are probably much more common situations for regressors.
2. Communication is important to successful relationships. You will need to work together with your partner on determining how you would like to communicate and what is most effective for your partnership. Communication can happen in so many different ways, including texting instead of verbally speaking, learning sign language together and using it as a method, or developing your own verbiage together that feels more safe and comfortable to speak when feeling vulnerable. Please work with your partner on this topic and don't make assumptions that your communication choice will be understood by them.
3. Limitations is an odd subject to bring up because this does not necessarily relate to age regression, in my opinion. I'm going to assume that perhaps you're combining BeDeeSeM with your regression and relationship since it's a focal point in that community.
If something makes you uncomfortable then you should discuss it with your partner at that point instead of forcing yourself into doing it just because you want to be "good". Talk with your partner about what makes you feel uncomfortable, unhappy, or just overall negative and work from there. A good Caregiver-Dominant isn't going to put you into harm's way because an expectation of the role is to take care of another adult, but also should be willing to talk with you about your hesitations and personal preferences when it comes to whatever you feel needs limits set so that you can figure out what is something you don't like or can't handle.
If you are talking specifically about BeDeeSeM then I would encourage you to seek out a reputable BeDeeSeM community that focuses on healthy educational material and community.
4. All friendship request belong in the
Looking for Friendship - Connections area of the site. Outside of that, friendships occur when someone gets to know you a little bit. I would recommend hanging out in the group chat room and having lighthearted, open conversations with people there.
5. Please read our
resources to learn more about not only our community but yourself.