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By louisemusic
#3754
So.... I'm a lesbian woman and I'm 19 years old. I'm looking for a little girl, who is looking for a mommy. I'm not sure how to make it clear that I'm looking for other females and not males. Help anyone?
By JuneStar
#3755
The best advice I can give is to be make your intentions extremely clear and be prepared to ignore the males who contact you because they either couldn't read or accept your sexuality.

My assumption is that you're posting personal ads around various dating sites for MDlg / ageplay / AB folk. If so, I'd put a disclaimer line immediately before your ad that said something like:

Disclaimer: I am a LESBIAN looking only for biological FEMALES. Any and all males will be ignored. NO EXCEPTIONS!

It'd be the absolute first thing that anyone sees, and most folks are going to understand your reasoning for putting it so upfront in the first place. It's important. It's a part of who you are and what you want. There's no reason to beat around the bush about it.
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