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Scared of dependency

Posted: |May 23rd, 2018|, 3:36 am
by Redlotus
Hello everyone
I've just started a MDR (medium distance relationship) with my daddy. We've met once and msg or talk everyday. Always something by mid morning and something at night at leasr.
I'm finding that when my daddy doesn't msg or reply, I really start to fret. I would usually say that's silly, but my little side, which I'm still learning about, sort of takes over and I find it difficult to function properly. It feels like a very strong dependency.
I know I will learn to manage this, but I'm not sure what to do in the short term.
I will talk to mt daddy about it but I think it's an adjustment thing that I have to work out myself as well.

Re: Scared of dependency

Posted: |May 23rd, 2018|, 11:21 am
by IttyBittyMonster
Yeah it can be hard when you're eagerly waiting for that reply and it doesn't come in immediately. I know little us don't like to listen to logic at times, but try to remind yourself that he's probably just busy doing something at work, or maybe on the phone, or he could of just left it in another room! Definitely talk to your Daddy about it, maybe ask that if he's in a situation where he can't talk if he could just send you a message saying is going to be unreachable for X amount of time.

Good luck!

Re: Scared of dependency

Posted: |May 25th, 2018|, 7:06 am
by Redlotus
Thank you. It's good to know orhers understand. After talking to my daddy, I know more about his routine which will help.
I also think it's a bit if insecurity about relationships, but that's getting better.
I told Papi about how little me gets anxious and he reminded me about how that's part of me and okay, and to tell him how I feel.