- 2 years ago
#57924
I see so many littles in other communities saying they're incapable of controlling their behavior/actions when in littlespace, and god help you if you point out that that's either a sign of a mental health issue or a way of avoiding responsibility for things THEY, an ADULT, CAN in fact control.
Am I crazy or just being gaslit here? Littles are adults, but even if they weren't, actual children are capable of learning how to behave without mistreating others!
Why are people so obsessed with the idea of regression to the point of losing accountability?
I've seen a couple people trying to find out how to "calm" their little whose behavior, in any other dynamic, would be seen as abusive, and the people trying to "help" by giving advice for dealing with an actual toddler's tantrums see this as perfectly normal and fine??? WHY IS THIS OKAY??? Am I the crazy one???
Am I crazy or just being gaslit here? Littles are adults, but even if they weren't, actual children are capable of learning how to behave without mistreating others!
Why are people so obsessed with the idea of regression to the point of losing accountability?
I've seen a couple people trying to find out how to "calm" their little whose behavior, in any other dynamic, would be seen as abusive, and the people trying to "help" by giving advice for dealing with an actual toddler's tantrums see this as perfectly normal and fine??? WHY IS THIS OKAY??? Am I the crazy one???