[lis03]

So my caregiver wants to know what to properly say to me when I'm in little space but he don't know what. He always gets it wrong and makes me upset even more. He knows how to wake me up, how to use my pet names, but in general talking he doesnt know how to talk to me. Any tips for him?

[LunaLilac]

I mean, how would you want to be talked to? You seem to know what is wrong but what would you consider getting it right?

I think in this type of situation all you can do is talk to your cg about it and tell them what you would like, and how you want them to talk to you. Communication is always important, and relying on them magically understanding what you want without talking to them about it is fairly presumptuous, and little or not, you are a grown adult in a relationship, its important you express how you feel and want from your partner, also understanding that compromise will likely be necessary regardless of the outcome.

There are guides on here for cgs to help, but every single person is unique, that includes both you and your cg, and its important to take time to understand what you both want, together.