- 3 years ago
I'm 20 and though I don't live with my family anymore, I know that they will never understand, they come over a lot. Before I accepted my little, I've always accepted my submissive nature in relationships. My mother found out and things were really, really bad, so I realized I had to and will likely always have to hide it. I've always run errands and picked up things while I was out, mixing it into what I needed. Or when I order something I order something that seems really normal. Sometimes I've had to order things for dates when I know they won't be around. It can be hard, but it's better than stifling yourself.