You can always send him here! There are tons of really helpful links and articles here to get him started, and if he had any specific questions then we're more than happy to answer them! It's hard to give general advice since everyone's dynamic is going to be different. Some are twisty, some aren't, some are cutesy pastel princesses, and others aren't. There are as many different ways to live this life as there are people in the world! I think sending him here himself would be a great way to start. Congrats on finding a caregiver!