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#33301
*tips hat* Hi beautiful peeps :)

I'm wondering, if the whole "daddy" concept is one of an older, more authoritative, wise and protective caregiver then is there any kind of... I don't know, age rule? Are there young daddies? Do they need to actually be old enough to be my dad?? I'm 23 so do if I want a daddy does he not count unless he's like in his 40s or 50s? Or can he be of any age and just be someone who identifies as a daddy?

I'm sorry if this sounds retarted, I'm really new and clueless @_@

Thanks, cherubs xxx
#33303
Sithbunnysama wrote:I'm wondering, if the whole "daddy" concept is one of an older, more authoritative, wise and protective caregiver then is there any kind of... I don't know, age rule? Are there young daddies? Do they need to actually be old enough to be my dad?? I'm 23 so do I want a daddy does he not count unless he's like in his 40s or 50s? Or can he be of any age and just be someone who identifies as a daddy?
I think it's personal to the little.

I'm 45. I like to think that my lg's like my age, experience, attitude and more. I don't think an ACTUAL age is important as much as what the little needs.


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#33305
It's a good question. I think a little can be any age because our little age is a state of mind. Therefore a Daddy can also be any age because that is also a state of mind. Well that's my opinion anyway.

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#33321
Just like littles daddies also can be any age and mommies too! Your future daddy does not have to be older then you unless that is what you want. He can be the same age or even a little younger! It is all a matter of who you are lookimg for! ^.^~

I wish you good luck on your search and if you have more question's feel free to pm me!

Also no question is ever dumb!

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#33425
I am 20 and my daddy is also 20, he is about four months younger than me. I really don't think actual age matters at all [emoji4] it's all about what you are looking for in a person!


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#33643
Some are positively ancient biologically, and, no matter how young they feel, this can be an issue... Still, as long as nothing has fallen off, I will remain 25 in my head!

As everyone else has said, it is not so much how old you are but who you are that is important. I've met some very young people with extremely old outlooks...
#36891
Don't think biological age has anything to do with being a daddy. A little could be older than their daddy, but obviously the roles of being a little or daddy are the same. Some people prefer their little to be younger than them, most just want someone who loves them for who they are. No matter the age.
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