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This was a topic that I was inclinded to bring up due to me being a younger caregiver. The typical ideology of a caregiver/little relationship is that that caregiver is older however, as long as the caregiver is 18 why should it matter? I don't want the fact that I am only 18 to make people think I am not good enough to be their caregiver or that I'm not capable. I completley understand that some people have specific preferences though.
I don't think there's anything wrong with a caregiver who is younger than their little. As long as you and your partner are both having your needs met, there's no reason I can see why there has to be a specified age gap. I suppose having an older caregiver might help some Littles regress, but that would be a matter of personal preference.
Honestly as long as both partners are 18+ I don't think it matters one bit what their actual ages are or who's older than who. Being a Caregiver is more about your personality as a nurturing and caring person, not what specific physical age you are. It's all about the mental mindset!
My caregiver is actually a year younger than me. It's never been an issue for us at all and honestly i forget most of the time lol. But i really see no problem at all, i don't see the need for littles to HAVE to be smaller, younger, more sensitive or anything like that. Everyone is different so there is gonna be alot of different relationships.
Everyone is equal and everyone is special <3
As someone who is 20 years old with an 18 year old Daddy, I think that it is fine. As long as everyone is 18+ then it's fine. A Daddy that is older then them or physically bigger then them might help a little to regress but it's not necessary.
I'm 54 and my daddy is 47 but it doesn't matter.
I suppose if people are attracted to certain age groups (as some 'vanilla' relationships) it will be a consideration for a romantic/physically intimate cg/l couple.
But generally our age based on our date of birth becomes much more fluid once we get to adulthood.
I think as long as you are 18 or older, I think it is fine. Everyone has their own preference, so so people in the community will probably have an issue with your age or prefer more experienced caregivers. In my opinion, the only thing that matters is how a caregiver conducts him/herself. I hope this helps.
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