- 5 years ago
#49112
Hello. I'm feeling a bit embarrassed asking this, partially because I feel like this is a simplistic enough question that I feel like I should know the answer to. I apologize if this is in the wrong place as well. I looked over the site, and through the quick run-through, I couldn't find an answer to this question.
Basically the question is this: is it weird to want both a Mommy and a Daddy? I suppose the correct thing to say to answer this question would be to bring up why exactly people want a Mommy or a Daddy in the first place. And I suppose that would be to bring up two different categories of physically intimate versus non-physically intimate littles. I haven't had enough exposure to know which one that I definitively belong to, but thus far, I'm open to both. For the longest time, I had assumed that the reason why I was so interested in having a Mommy was because in real life, I'm a heterosexual male who is interested in such, and as a result, having a Mommy would be the natural extension to my endeavor of becoming a baby girl.
However, through recent exposure to the DateCGL site, all I can say is that my intuition has changed. I've met a number of really nice and caring Daddies on the website, and it's made me review the reasons for why I wanted a Mommy in the first place. And it's brought to mind some complicated emotions in this regard.
To bring a complicated psychological profile into a quick summary, I believe that the reason why I've always been interested in being a baby girl is because my mind cannot separate the difference between having and being. Simply put, over the years, my psyche had always wanted to have a girlfriend, but my mind was too stupid to pick up what it was saying. As a result, things got switched up in my brain, and so crossdressing became the norm. And as one thing led to another, eventually I wound up as a baby girl, being the ultimate apex to crossdressing.
So, bringing to mind that complicated point, as I seek out a Mommy for my ultimate conclusion, what I'm stuck with is the original paradigm of my dilemma. If I am a baby girl, do I want the metaphorical substance that all of this is leading to, or do I want to BE the baby girl? And if I'm taking the guise of the baby girl, then under the DDlg system, would it be that strange to want to have a Daddy as a caregiver?
As I read ads relating to Daddies on the website, it brings to mind interesting variables. I'm actually attracted to it, surprisingly to the physically intimate aspect of it. And this proves to be a bit of a contradiction. As my original background lays out, I am a heterosexual male, and as a result, it wouldn't make sense as to why I would be interested in the physically intimate connotations of another Daddy, but as I'm thrown in between the hoops of Psychology, I'm stuck with the original question of having versus being.
And hence, I am completely lost. I feel like I want both a Mommy and a Daddy, but for completely different reasons for one another. And my ability to project the future seems to impaired as I consider this outcome. I have no idea on what to consider from all of this stuff.
Again, I apologize for the content of this question. No doubt a number of you clicked on this thread because you felt like it was a simplistic question with a simplistic answer, and then you got lost in the jibber-jabber of my psychological linguistics. As a result, feel free to tell me whatever you're feeling about this dilemma. Any help is better than no help.
Basically the question is this: is it weird to want both a Mommy and a Daddy? I suppose the correct thing to say to answer this question would be to bring up why exactly people want a Mommy or a Daddy in the first place. And I suppose that would be to bring up two different categories of physically intimate versus non-physically intimate littles. I haven't had enough exposure to know which one that I definitively belong to, but thus far, I'm open to both. For the longest time, I had assumed that the reason why I was so interested in having a Mommy was because in real life, I'm a heterosexual male who is interested in such, and as a result, having a Mommy would be the natural extension to my endeavor of becoming a baby girl.
However, through recent exposure to the DateCGL site, all I can say is that my intuition has changed. I've met a number of really nice and caring Daddies on the website, and it's made me review the reasons for why I wanted a Mommy in the first place. And it's brought to mind some complicated emotions in this regard.
To bring a complicated psychological profile into a quick summary, I believe that the reason why I've always been interested in being a baby girl is because my mind cannot separate the difference between having and being. Simply put, over the years, my psyche had always wanted to have a girlfriend, but my mind was too stupid to pick up what it was saying. As a result, things got switched up in my brain, and so crossdressing became the norm. And as one thing led to another, eventually I wound up as a baby girl, being the ultimate apex to crossdressing.
So, bringing to mind that complicated point, as I seek out a Mommy for my ultimate conclusion, what I'm stuck with is the original paradigm of my dilemma. If I am a baby girl, do I want the metaphorical substance that all of this is leading to, or do I want to BE the baby girl? And if I'm taking the guise of the baby girl, then under the DDlg system, would it be that strange to want to have a Daddy as a caregiver?
As I read ads relating to Daddies on the website, it brings to mind interesting variables. I'm actually attracted to it, surprisingly to the physically intimate aspect of it. And this proves to be a bit of a contradiction. As my original background lays out, I am a heterosexual male, and as a result, it wouldn't make sense as to why I would be interested in the physically intimate connotations of another Daddy, but as I'm thrown in between the hoops of Psychology, I'm stuck with the original question of having versus being.
And hence, I am completely lost. I feel like I want both a Mommy and a Daddy, but for completely different reasons for one another. And my ability to project the future seems to impaired as I consider this outcome. I have no idea on what to consider from all of this stuff.
Again, I apologize for the content of this question. No doubt a number of you clicked on this thread because you felt like it was a simplistic question with a simplistic answer, and then you got lost in the jibber-jabber of my psychological linguistics. As a result, feel free to tell me whatever you're feeling about this dilemma. Any help is better than no help.