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#13230
I recently realized that I am asexual.
I had a truly amazing Daddy that I hurt by accident. I thought that physically intimate feelings would come, but they never did. I hurt him.
I hate myself.
I am scared to be a little anymore, I don't want to hurt anyone else.
#13240
Hey! Do not be upset. It is totally acceptable to be asexual. Whatever makes you happy (: The fact that your daddy did not accept you for your sexuality just shows that he was not meant for you. Please do not hate yourself, you're beautiful! Also, do not make this incident turn you away from being a little. Accidents happen, but do not shut yourself out of who you are.
#13288
Being asexual is 100% fine, it can be a deal breaker to some but please don't let it get you down. There are definitely other Daddies out there who either do not care about sex much or are asexual as well, preferring an emotional connection over a more physical one.

When getting into a new relationship take things slow, try to bring up the subject of sexuality and/or find out how much value your partner places in sex (deal breaker or no).

Do not hate yourself for how you are, you can't control your body and force it to feel and do things that it just isn't 'made' to do. You are perfect the way you are and will eventually find someone who understands where you are coming from. :hugs:

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