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I not sure if ish jush me buts it seems most mommies and daddies look for little girls? Ish it just becuase its known as DDLG not CGL, or is it someting about girlies? I see so many posts looking for little girls but only like 1/25 looking for boys if even dat. But this post is mostly wondering if its personalities or body parts or common attributes or what cause I jush wanna figure outs why. >~< cause if its attributeies den why does no ones gets to know a little a little befores just saying dey only wants a girl? ...also sowwy for ramblings... I ish boreds and wonewy
Most doms are guys and most people in general are straight. I very seldomly meet mommy caretakers and I have never met an experienced dominatrix. That's coming from someone who was mostly looking in the babyfur community however (and I've been watching that community for eleven years). Mommies are not common, and even fewer of them will reveal themselves because a lot of babyfurs (and honestly ABDLs in general) have a tendency to swarm them when they appear. Everybody is looking for a caretaker and they're less common than littles so I've met a lot of caretakers that were just swamped with kids. Furry e-families tend to have one caretaker and several cubs because the caretakers are just under so much demand so they feel compelled to take on multiple littles.
Don't get discouraged. Caretakers are out there, you just have to keep finding ways to rub elbows with them.
I am with PeppermintBatty here. You just have to look in the right places. Those looking for boys, or even transgender littles do exist, albeit they are harder to find. You may want to attend a Little munch or convention in your area. This may help you make real life connections who might know the perfect match for you!