What type of partner are you looking for here? A live, adult human (*extraterrestrials need not apply; sorry!) who has a special eye to seeing the fun things in life. Hair is optional. Skin, height, and weight are all irrelevant. They must love chocolately chocolate brownies and relaxing to children's movies. Also must be pet-friendly. Keeping up with local news is also kind of important since it generally involves my career and I enjoy chatting about those things. Capabilities of reading is required.
Are you open to long distance relationships or only local? I am looking for the type of relationship that exists. Locally or long-distance is more than acceptable.
Describe your perfect match and some great qualities that they would have: I think I may have jumped the gun and explained a part of this earlier. I'd prefer if they have a head, shoulders, and a suitable neck to hold said head on their shoulders. Preferably no more than 10 toes but I can definitely make an exception to that rule if we really hit it off. Must care about animals, pets, wildlife, and, of course, humans (because I'm a human).
Are you into physically intimate or nonsexual Caregiver/little play? Both.
Do you prefer polyamorous or monogamous relationships? I prefer the type of relationship that suits us the best, fulfills us both individually and together, and keeps us happily together in the long-run. I am open to polyamory but also very welcoming of monogamy. Let's talk about this as we progress together.
How long have you been into the BeDeeSeM scene? 3 years
How long have you been into the Caregiver/little dynamic? 2 years
What are you looking for in a Caregiver Dom/little? Someone who knows their role but is willing to learn and blossom with me as we grow together. I want us to intertwine in some regards, and us to be separate entities in others. I need my partner to be understanding, open, insightful, and cooperative of my needs as well as OUR needs as a unit.
What do you think you have to offer to a Caregiver/little? As I insinuated, I am compassionate and caring. I understand your needs versus my needs versus our needs. I am open minded.
If into physically intimate scenes, what are some kinks you enjoy? I'd prefer not to really dive into this too much publicly but I'm into nearly all aspects related to Caregiver/little scenes. If you think it relates to Caregiver/little things then I'm probably very into it.
If into physically intimate scenes, what are some kinks you do not enjoy? I'm not a fan of anything my partner does not explicitly consent to or would die from. Other than that, I'm open minded. Throw it at me and let's talk.
What are your hard limits when it comes to play? Again, non-consent (not consensual nonconsent) and imminent death. Also, you know, no underage, no animals, no deceased persons, no drug usage, no cannibalism, and nothing illegal. Illegal things are no-nos.
What are some punishments you enjoy when being disciplined, corrected, guided, or seduced? I'd prefer to talk about this less publicly, but I think most Caregiver/little relationships involve things like spankings, time-outs, writing lines, etc.
What are rewards or reward methods you enjoy? I'd prefer to talk about this less publicly. I'd like to think candies, sweets, special time together, massages, and surprise gifts are enjoyed by most people. I'm one of the "most people" I've mentioned.
Describe one of your favorite physically intimate or nonsexual fantasies: Can I fantasize about coming home, cuddling on the couch, watching a good movie like Shrek, having a variety of popcorn options, and talking about our days together before we scurry off to bed and relax with a good book by someone like Watty Piper.
Yeah? Then that.
What are some general (naughty or nice) nicknames you like to call your Caregiver/little? Love, sweetheart, babe
If into physically intimate scenes, if a safe word is used during a scene then how do you proceed? Safe words are extremely important and I think even vanilla people should really use them. We will pause if either of us uses the safeword, change whatever needs to be changed if possible, comfort one another if needed, and stop the scene entirely if we should.
Safe words will not include colors--especially red. You need to realize that it's a terrible safe-word. How many times have you considered a partner saying something like, "Your bottom is very red from that spanking!" or, "You make me blush red-cheeked and all!"
We will choose a word you wouldn't likely say, just as it should be--or, better yet, make up an entirely special word of our own.
What do you think makes a Caregiver Dom different than a regular or general Dominant? I think they intertwine in many aspects, but, obviously, a Caregiver is more parental in authority.
If into physically intimate scenes, what are 5 physically intimate things you enjoy? Let's talk about these things privately, please!
What are 5 nonsexual things you enjoy? baking chocolately chocolate brownies, keeping up on local news, traveling, amusement parks, and ridding the world of evil dangers like toothpicks that are too sharp! Oh, and reading. I read a lot. Even right now, I'm reading.
What are 3 movies you enjoy? Shrek, Shrek 2, Shrek the Third
What are your 3 of your favorite foods? Chocolately chocolate brownies, chocolate brownies, brownies
During an argument or disagreement with a partner, how do you typically react? That's very situational based and is dependent on my partner's reaction as well. I react like a human, I think, but try my hardest to be rational in said reactions.
What are some other things you would like to tell a potentially interested partner about yourself? I have hair, eyes, and a full set of teeth. Also, I like to wear clothes in public.
I enjoy reading and am a fan of Beatrix Potter, Eric Carle, Mercer Mayer, H.A. Rey, Ludwig Bemelmans, Margaret Wise Brown, Watty Piper, and Maurice Sendak. My favorite author is probably Antoine de Saint-Exupéry though.
You can reach me through my contact information on my profile, including private messaging me through this wonderful site.
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