- 6 years ago
#43918
- Name: will be given to right Caregiver
- Biological Age: 23
- Height: 5'5
- Weight: 185 lbs
- Location: Ontario
- Occupation: Student
- Current Marital or Relationship Status: Married/ Polyamorous
- physically intimate orientation: Pansexual
- DateCGL.com Username:
- What are some things that have led you to identifying as a little?
I have a little side that only comes out for very special people. Typically, I am a dom. Lately, my submissive side has been being neglected though, and I want to share it with someone. I enjoy colouring, disney movies, and turning off and just worrying about being good for Daddy and making him/her happy. - What type of partner are you looking for here?
I am looking for someone who needs me. Who understands I have a long history of abuse and need time and patience and lots of coddling to feel secure. My little side is extremely vulnerable and it is scary to get into it, but you'll have my love and endless affection if you are the special person who can unlock it. I need someone understanding, gentle, who understands I can't deal with physical punishments and is willing to work with me on actually submitting (being little and submitting are two different things for me). - Are you open to long distance relationships or only local?
Both, long distance is fine. - Describe your perfect match and some great qualities that they would have:
He/she would like the title Daddy or Papa (doesn't have to be a male partner, those are just the words I prefer). They wouldn't be a person who enjoys causing another pain or humiliation or get enjoyment out of degrading me and making me feel small. They would be gentle with corrections and giving with praise, and willing to hold me after nightmares and make me feel protected. They would be willing to claim me, tell me I belong to them no matter what. They would also have to be okay with be being poly. I have subs of my own and am married (this will not cause any problems or interference in our relationship). - Are you into physically intimate or nonsexual Caregiver/little play?
Nonsexual. Sex is still a violent, scary place for me. I am willing to work up to it with someone I trust, but it has been ruined for me as of now. - Do you prefer polyamorous or monogamous relationships?
Poly, and I would adore having a sissy or brother. I would prefer only one dom, though. - How long have you been into the Caregiver/little dynamic?
2 years. - What are you looking for in a Caregiver Dom?
Someone I can support, love, and show that they are the most amazing person in the world. Someone who is loving and gentle and wants affection. - What do you think you have to offer to a Caregiver?
I am very affectionate. I am a well-behaved little, I don't back talk and I am the furthest thing from a brat (not that there is anything wrong with brats). I am very compassionate and understanding and have no problems at all with a Caregiver who has to divide time or cancel sometimes. I am happy with whatever my Caregiver can give me, and am always here to support and love them no matter what happens. For a caregiver who has been hurt, or has a history of abuse too, or has a mental illness, I think I am a particularly good match because of my calm, reassuring manner. Even when I'm little, I am gentle and loving. - What are some punishments you prefer for being disciplined, corrected, or guided?
I would prefer none at all. Lines or time outs are acceptable, but I respond much better to simply being told what I did wrong. - What are rewards or reward methods you enjoy?
Cuddles, movie nights, special dates, video chats - Describe one of your favorite nonsexual fantasies or scenarios:
Daddy picks my outfit in something he thinks I will look pretty in, then helps me tie a ribbon in my hair and we go out to get ice cream and play on the swings at the park. After, we come home and I give him a massage and make dinner. - What are some general nicknames you like to call your Caregiver?
Daddy, Papa, Sir, etc. - What do you think makes a Caregiver Dom different than a regular or general Dominant?
A caregiver is more focused on nurturing than training, and isn't looking for blind submission but rather for a loving connection with a bit of fun thrown in. More princess dresses and kitten collars than cuffs and dungeons. - What are 5 nonsexual things you enjoy?
Movies, videogames (I love watching people play videogames too), writing, reading, sewing - What are 3 movies you enjoy?
Moana, Hunger Games, anything Marvel - What are 3 of your favorite foods?
Bacon Mac and Cheese, hard candy, and chicken kiev - What are 3 of your favorite songs, bands, or musical artists?
Melanie Martinez, Starset, Disturbed - What is something you have recently learned?
How to snap my fingers - What is your current biggest life achievement?
I graduated college in 2014, and am in university now. - During an argument or disagreement with a partner, how do you typically react?
If I get heated, I take a minute to cool down. I will say something like, "I love you" or "I'm sorry" after a minute of silence, and if I get a response back that makes me feel safe and not like I'm going to be hit, I will talk it out calmly. If not, I will wait longer or go to the bathroom to be alone until everything calms down. - What are some other things you would like to tell a potentially interested partner about yourself?
I have depression, a history of eating disorders, Complex PTSD, nightmares, etc. You can deal with these as much or as little as you like, I can separate them from the relationship entirely or, if you are willing to help me with them, let you help sometimes. On these, I am extremely independent and vulnerable and it will take a lot of trust.
I am also extremely mature about love and relationships. Just be honest with me, I don't play games and I won't say something I don't mean. If I need something, I'll do my best to ask for it when I feel safe enough. If you have done something wrong, I'll tell you and also help you fix it. I ask the same courtesy be extended to me.
I know I sound like a lot, but honestly, I am extremely fluid. I am good at knowing what my partners can handle and at being who they need me to be. Not that I am fake, but my personality is so varied, it's rare I would find someone I wouldn't work well with.
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