- 2 years ago
#57958
Hello!
I've been age regressing for 10 years now due to my trauma and nobody knows about it, so I feel like this is a safe place to talk about everything.
I never really paid too much attention to it until 2 years ago when I got into a relationship with my lovely boyfriend. Now the problem is I have to continuously mask whenever I age regress because I just know he wouldn't accept something like that. Or maybe I'm just paranoid he will leave me if he finds out...
Most problems happen when I'm having a regressive episode and it's time to do physically intimate stuff. We are both consensual adults and that isn't a problem and more of a problem is that we are both boys and he plays a submissive role during sex and I label myself as a switch more on the dominant side but the age regressing and little space literally ruin everything for me. I'm so sick of it. 90% of the time it gets triggered during those times and it leads to us arguing the next day about how I'm "lying about being a dom" and I have to keep reassuring him that that's not the case.
I want to know if anyone has any advice on how to lessen the triggers for age regressing and little space... I just want to have a normal life without having to cope that way. Any help is appreciated, love you all!
I've been age regressing for 10 years now due to my trauma and nobody knows about it, so I feel like this is a safe place to talk about everything.
I never really paid too much attention to it until 2 years ago when I got into a relationship with my lovely boyfriend. Now the problem is I have to continuously mask whenever I age regress because I just know he wouldn't accept something like that. Or maybe I'm just paranoid he will leave me if he finds out...
Most problems happen when I'm having a regressive episode and it's time to do physically intimate stuff. We are both consensual adults and that isn't a problem and more of a problem is that we are both boys and he plays a submissive role during sex and I label myself as a switch more on the dominant side but the age regressing and little space literally ruin everything for me. I'm so sick of it. 90% of the time it gets triggered during those times and it leads to us arguing the next day about how I'm "lying about being a dom" and I have to keep reassuring him that that's not the case.
I want to know if anyone has any advice on how to lessen the triggers for age regressing and little space... I just want to have a normal life without having to cope that way. Any help is appreciated, love you all!