- 8 years ago
#11850
Hiya Bigs / Caregivers
I'm new to the forum and actually talking with people about this stuff so sorry if this is a little weird, long, hard to follow or I put this question in the wrong space. I noticed I was interested in little stuff and diapers the whole sha-bang at the age of like 7 or 8 and it's a large part of who I am. I've read a lot about it and understand quite a bit of the dynamics and roles. I'm just a little fuzzy on how once people come together and form this relationship how it continuously would play out throughout the years.
I'm curious as to how these relationships would play out in day to day life I guess? Do both partners usually go to work, then as they come home they rest a bit and get into their roles? Cuddle time (which should be all the time!) and stuff would work but how do you ensure that both partners are handling the house work fairly? I'd just feel bad as a little if I didn't help out with cooking (kitchens can be dangerous for us littles though) or around the house. Do most of y'all have it set up as a relationship with Big/Little undertones (even if it's a large part of the relationship you still need to treat things as a partnership and share responsibilities yeah?)
How do you keep the relationship from becoming stale or uninteresting (That's the question all people want to know right? haha) I know having a relationship solely based on this dynamic isn't the best way to ensure a long lasting one, I just wouldn't want to be with someone then they're suddenly tired of it and find it annoying or something. + I'm not sure I'd be able to come up with creative stuff to keep them happy or entertained. I wouldn't want to just be a lazy little who stays in his head all day (I spend a lot of time up there anyway...if you can't tell from this wall of text.) and never has anything to talk with mommy/daddy about or show them.
Then there's balancing the work times and stuff too so you can both be together enough of the time, which seems like a pain in the butt.
How do I curl up in mommy/daddy's lap if I'm about the same size as them?!? I don't wanna hurt them
I guess maybe there's a bunch of stuff you don't know how to make work, until you actually find someone and try them out.
Thanks in advance, sorry it's pretty long...hopefully I made some sense?
Uhhh TL;DR : I'm curious as to how these relationships would play out in day to day life?
How do you balance the relationship "work load" to ensure both parties are fulfilling their obligations to the relationship?
I'm new to the forum and actually talking with people about this stuff so sorry if this is a little weird, long, hard to follow or I put this question in the wrong space. I noticed I was interested in little stuff and diapers the whole sha-bang at the age of like 7 or 8 and it's a large part of who I am. I've read a lot about it and understand quite a bit of the dynamics and roles. I'm just a little fuzzy on how once people come together and form this relationship how it continuously would play out throughout the years.
I'm curious as to how these relationships would play out in day to day life I guess? Do both partners usually go to work, then as they come home they rest a bit and get into their roles? Cuddle time (which should be all the time!) and stuff would work but how do you ensure that both partners are handling the house work fairly? I'd just feel bad as a little if I didn't help out with cooking (kitchens can be dangerous for us littles though) or around the house. Do most of y'all have it set up as a relationship with Big/Little undertones (even if it's a large part of the relationship you still need to treat things as a partnership and share responsibilities yeah?)
How do you keep the relationship from becoming stale or uninteresting (That's the question all people want to know right? haha) I know having a relationship solely based on this dynamic isn't the best way to ensure a long lasting one, I just wouldn't want to be with someone then they're suddenly tired of it and find it annoying or something. + I'm not sure I'd be able to come up with creative stuff to keep them happy or entertained. I wouldn't want to just be a lazy little who stays in his head all day (I spend a lot of time up there anyway...if you can't tell from this wall of text.) and never has anything to talk with mommy/daddy about or show them.
Then there's balancing the work times and stuff too so you can both be together enough of the time, which seems like a pain in the butt.
How do I curl up in mommy/daddy's lap if I'm about the same size as them?!? I don't wanna hurt them
I guess maybe there's a bunch of stuff you don't know how to make work, until you actually find someone and try them out.
Thanks in advance, sorry it's pretty long...hopefully I made some sense?
Uhhh TL;DR : I'm curious as to how these relationships would play out in day to day life?
How do you balance the relationship "work load" to ensure both parties are fulfilling their obligations to the relationship?