- 3 years ago
#55374
So, total newbie with many questions here, so forgive me for any ignorance.
I've been curious of/ gazing vaguely longingly at age play related things for awhile, but never really got the gumption together to actually explore in any concrete way. On reflection my wife and I have always had unstated shades of caregiver little in our relationship, but have never described our relationship in that particular way. Probably for not very good reasons (shame and embarrassment lead to stuffing that sort of uncomfortable thought down the memory hole).
For context: We met in the BeDeeSeM scene, me being more dominant and her being very bratty, childish and cute and all that. I've always loved spoiling her after scenes (cuddles and candy fix all the ouchies!) and we've kindof unconsciously been doing various age regressiony things around the house (our holiday tradition is to "age-wegwess and wuv and wet it out" by cuddling in a cat bed of blankets in the living room for a days long pokemon marathon).
So, anyway, my actual question: With general 2020 stress, anxiety and depression I've been asking myself some tough questions and kinda coming to the conclusion that I might have my own little side that I've been repressing for awhile. I'm still more than happy to have periods of caregiving dommy play with my wife, but also maybe want to have moments where we hang out together as little sisters or whatever? I dunno, labels are hard. Were poly anyway, so if I wanted my own big at some point that's not a real problem. There's nothing really wrong per se, but were just talking about things could be even better moving forward.
Kinda just wondering, how common is this sort of experience for other littles? How have people negotiated similar relationships? That sorta thing.
I've been curious of/ gazing vaguely longingly at age play related things for awhile, but never really got the gumption together to actually explore in any concrete way. On reflection my wife and I have always had unstated shades of caregiver little in our relationship, but have never described our relationship in that particular way. Probably for not very good reasons (shame and embarrassment lead to stuffing that sort of uncomfortable thought down the memory hole).
For context: We met in the BeDeeSeM scene, me being more dominant and her being very bratty, childish and cute and all that. I've always loved spoiling her after scenes (cuddles and candy fix all the ouchies!) and we've kindof unconsciously been doing various age regressiony things around the house (our holiday tradition is to "age-wegwess and wuv and wet it out" by cuddling in a cat bed of blankets in the living room for a days long pokemon marathon).
So, anyway, my actual question: With general 2020 stress, anxiety and depression I've been asking myself some tough questions and kinda coming to the conclusion that I might have my own little side that I've been repressing for awhile. I'm still more than happy to have periods of caregiving dommy play with my wife, but also maybe want to have moments where we hang out together as little sisters or whatever? I dunno, labels are hard. Were poly anyway, so if I wanted my own big at some point that's not a real problem. There's nothing really wrong per se, but were just talking about things could be even better moving forward.
Kinda just wondering, how common is this sort of experience for other littles? How have people negotiated similar relationships? That sorta thing.