[httpsinners]

so I'm new in this whole mommy thing and I need a help in how to deal with my bratty little and how do I do after care? like, what should I do?

[Motherly]

You’re going to need to talk to your partner about their expectations of you when they’re behaving in any sort of intentional defiance.

Your partner probably has some ideas of fantasies they’d like acted out, or has already put in a lot of thought about how their magical perfect Mommy would ideally act and react toward them in these situations. Some bratty Littles seek punishment while others like their partner to encourage the bratty behavior through spoiling them and giving into the bratty demands. Nobody can give you better initial advice other than your partner, and it’s so worth it to create the safety of open communication so you don’t have to guess so much. It can be a really fun conversation though and doesn’t have to be super serious face!

We do have some resources you may be interested in, including for aftercare as well as how you can create reasonable rules if that’s your thing.

[httpsinners]

thank you, I will make sure to talk to her about it.

[HaileyRandle]

If I am taking care of a brat that just generally wants "tamed" I employ the time-out chair. Why yes hunny of coarse you can refuse to go in, but we aren't having any more fun until you sit in that chair for at least ten minutes. Bring a book, show them you arn't playing this game and you mean business. If they are running away and giggling, don't chase them. Make them come to you. Then after a time out (which is mostly meant to calm them down) I help them understand what they did wrong and why it is bad. Then a quick spanking over my lap if they are okay with spankings, then after care is normally cuddles, snacks, and cartoons. But as mentioned above me, make sure to know what they are and are not okay with. Don't forget to remind them of the safe word and check up on their mental status at appropriate intervals. And above all, have fun!.